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Hi Jill,
I firstly would like to thank-you for an email you replied to at the start of the year regarding an issue that I was having with my family which has turned out exactly the way you have said.
Currently I and my partner have started a new business which I'm not skeptic about but I guess quite scared as it’s a completely different from a "normal business" and I would like some advice to how I can put my best forward. Hoping that make sense.
It’s a holistic approach which I like about the business I guess in a way I am scared of failing in it as it’s a business that requires a lot of networking which is a bit jarring. I see a lot of potential in this business and a bit stuck in how I can make the best of it. I am also studying towards a degree in communications and a mum of three I have being told I am a leader but at this stage not to sure. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Sincerely yours, S

My thoughts are...That you are not scared you are excited and that is good, just soften everything for yourself and know that like in the past we build continuously on our experiences and knowledge as our journeys unfold, look forward to the adventure and stop being dramatic is what I am feeling lol.
You really have nothing to worry about just practically apply what you know and enjoy!!!
Jill

Hi Jill,
I couldn't help but laugh, Thank you Jill, yes I agree!! Have a great Day

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Hello, for over a year I suffer because of presence of evil spirits. The spirits are with me everywhere, inside and outside of my home. There are at least two men spirits and three women spirits. The spirits came to my life and told me that they come to me to improve my life. But after a year I can see that it is ordinary lie. They are parasites and feed on my energy. They don’t want to help me, they want to control my life for their own purpose. I heart that good spirits only suggest what to do and they don’t do anything by force. The spirits which tormenting me now tell me simply what to do and when I disegree to them they slapping my face, my head, jearking my guts which is very painful.
So please do help me, please pray for me and drive them away from me for good. I realy need your help. I wait to hear from you.
Kind regards,
J...

Hi J...,
What first comes to mind is...what happened a year ago?...was there anything that you can remember that happened, that has attracted these spiritual parasites and creating havoc in your life. There could have been something that triggered spirit to do what they are doing now...
It is good to see you ARE aware and know that those spirits that are tormenting you are not really there for the betterment of you and your life.
What is important is...letting your intentions known to all spirit, that you won’t tolerate any negativity into your life what so ever...and that you are in total control of your life.
Protection from them is your first priority and to do this is...each day have a prayer and see YOU as a BRIGHT WHITE GLOWING LIGHT growing from inside the centre of your whole being as well as surrounding yourself with this bright white light every day...call on your spiritual guides that are there only for your highest good to come help, guard and protect you and your home, ask them to remove for good these un-savoury negative energies from you and your surroundings.
Take control, because this is YOUR life and know that you are the most important person here and only you can take control of this no one else, BE STRONG and know that you do have a wonderful team of loving caring spiritual guides that are just waiting for your call for help...CALL THEM...THEY WILL COME AND HELP YOU!!!
Love and light
Heeni (AC Rep)

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Hi
Do you see my husband going to A...... to work this year or next year..And will it all go well?
Thanks K...

Yes, I do see your husband going to A..... to work and it will be into next year. I sense that you will want to be with him so you will need the extra time to consider all your options. I sense you will both be happy with the results.
Hope this helps. Jacquelyn (AC Rep)

Hi K....,
Yes, I do see your husband going to A.... sometime this year, I see him finding work and staying temporary with a family member, I also see you moving over not long after and finding work or something in the field of your choosing,
I feel you both staying over there for a while and being happy there
All the best
Heeni(AC Rep)

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Hi there...
I have been with my husband for 13 years and married for 8 of those...3 beautiful children the youngest being 12weeks old. When she was 9 weeks old he walked out of our home and doesn't want to be a family anymore - or more to the point with me.
This was and still is devastating and heartbreaking. Even though we had been a wee bit rocky for awhile I really thought we'd get through this. Please help me shed some light on this situation and help me to understand. Will we get through this and mend our differences and reunite as a family again or is there a future for us both without each other maybe with new partners and directions??
Thanks, L....

Hi,
Yes! I feel you will get through this by mending your differences. I see you both reuniting and being a family again.
It is mainly about you two and nothing to do with your environment, I do see you both talking things through with each other, trusting more, being more positive and finding new things to do as a family will improve your situation.
All the best, Heeni (AC Rep)

Hi L....
I sense that your husband is feeling a little overwhelmed at this time. Your family is growing and the responsibilities are increasing. It may be best to give both yourselves some space from each other.
I sense that your children are most important to you so during this time you will want to focus your attention on helping them with this change. This is not a time for blame.
Yes, I sense that you can make this marriage work if you are willing to take responsibility for your thoughts about the relationship. What you say to yourself about the marriage and about yourself can have an enormous effect on your potential reconciliation. You cannot make your husband change but you can take steps to acknowledge both sides of the situation and both your roles in the dissolution of the marriage as you indicated in your e-mail that you were aware that the marriage was on rocky terms for awhile,
I sense this may be difficult for you to do but you need to change the image that you are the one left behind. When you do this, it will bring you some relief and will help to empower you to make the necessary changes in your life. You will then know what is best for your family and as a re-united family unit, you will all be much stronger for it.
I hope this helps. Jacquelyn(AC Rep)

Hello There
I feel he needs time. He needs to decide what it is he wants. I feel as though he is feeling tired, tired of many things - the same routine day after day, being bombarded when he gets home, the nagging that you do to him, the pressures of responsibilities etc.
All is getting too much for him and sometimes men don’t like to admit that. You have to back off and let him decide what he wants. I do feel that you will get back together, but it will be after a period of time and after discussions between you both on what you want from your lives together. Just let him breath for a bit.
Thanks Teresa (AC Rep)

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Hi Jill,
I’m just wanting to know where my family and I are heading..
It’s been a bit tight with money lately and we seem to be getting nowhere, I’m at home with my nearly 3 yr old and my new 8 week old buba but I’m starting to think I’m gunna need a job..Is a job going to come up soon for me?
We also thought we could restart in A..... but that hasn’t happened either...I just want to know what we are going to do and whether we will be in this situation for longer than I hope for..I have so many ideas of what to do but which one I should do.
Thanks I’d love to hear from you as its beginning to cause friction in the house because that’s all I’m thinking about (we gunna go under??)K

Hi K...
I do see things are going to be tight a little bit longer for you...I did not see you finding a job anytime soon here in New Zealand but saw more opportunities for you if deciding to go to A......, if so, I see a new found excitement in the household with moving house, sorting and organising your things will put a positive step to your situation.
If your thinking you are going under, that's exactly what will happen...
Look at your options, make a decision, be happy and stick with your decision with renewed excitement and positivity with everyone on board
All the best, Heeni (AC Rep)

Hello There
No I do not think you will go under. You are aware of what’s happening and you will put plans in place to ensure you succeed. It is tight when children are around so I do see a slow progression up but you are steady and on top of things, not going nowhere.
Yes I do see you getting a job but in a couple months time. I can see a few ideas also but strongly I’m feeling, at home care for children, (not just your own), and being paid for that. I see this tight for a few years but you will fine. I don’t see a move to A..... for you as yet, as I can see that it will cost more than what you had thought first off, after investigation.
Thanks Teresa (AC Rep)

Hi K..,
It feels to me like there’s study around you have you been thinking about that. It doesn’t feel like A.... is the solution I feel whatever is making life uncomfortable for you at the moment will only follow you there, not to say that one day you won’t go to A.... because that can be worked on but at the moment I don’t see that as an option.
I know it’s hard not to focus on how hard things are for you but the more you focus on that the more life is going to show you that. Has your partner had any changes in his job it feels like he has been offered more hours or a different position it feels like a change there if he hasn’t it will be coming very soon which will help a little.
I think you will be ok this will pass I sense happy times coming but we put these challenges in our reality to learn from. I definitely feel that you do study if you aren’t already this feels good for you and gives you a sense of helping in the future even if you are tied up at home with kids at the moment. I hope this helps. Jody(AC Rep)

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Hi Jill
I came to you for a reading a couple of years ago and although most of it has come to fruition one thing has still to show any sign of happening. I have still to find love. I do try to keep myself open and positive but this is getting harder as I have been on my own for so long.
My mother passed away 11 years ago and I often think she would want me to be with someone rather than on my own and I have always believed that she would be choosing the 'right one' for me, that's why it’s taking so long. 11 years is a long time and although there have been a few 'friends' there hasn't been anyone who has really been special. Do you see anyone coming into my life in the near future or am I destined to be on my own? You also saw me having more children and I do hope that this is still going to happen?
I look forward to hearing from you
K.....

Hi K,
I saw you joining some kind of group, club or doing something creative you really like to do, by doing this, I see you meeting that someone special, and to love in the near future, you both look really happy and I see you with two children, a boy and girl to this man.
Your mum is there to fully support you, but you are the one who is destined to choose that special person, so go be the positive, open and happy person you are...
All the best, Heeni (AC Rep)

Hello There
Yes I do see you finding love, within the next five years. I know your mum is watching over you and wanting all the best things in life for you. But... you have to make them happen. I feel nervousness when you meet men, like a ' are you the one' type of thing.
You just have to relax and live your life for you and before you know it someone is there and a part of your life. Just let it flow and don’t look at every man as the next possibility. When this is on its way you both will decide whether you want children together.
Thanks Teresa (AC Rep)

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Hi Jill and your Team
I did intend to ask on Tuesday.
A friend’s health, who gets seizures and feel I am not truthful and it’s not the time to talk with her as my belief is our health has a lot to do with our thoughts.
She was to go to Ch/Ch for tests this week but has been put off because of the snow.
Can I help her?
I would love your guidance please.
Thanking you, with love M...

Hi M....
It feels like any approach to directly talking to her about it feels wrong as this only escalates her focus on her health problem even though your intention is different from that so to help this friend just keep putting into your mind you seeing her healthy and better.
Jill

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Hi, I am 6weeks pregnant and have been told I have a high risk pregnancy. I am worried sick that I am going to miscarry, are you able to see if it will end up being all ok and I have a healthy wee bub from it or will I end up miscarrying?
If you can help me with this question I would be very grateful.
Many thanks, B

So far so good I'm feeling. You with your worry is not helping though and really at the end of the day it will be or not and you have very little power of controlling that, so your worry is not helping but I feel like this baby will be fine; Start allowing yourself to enjoy this journey
Jill:)

Hi Jill, thank you so much for your reply, I know my worrying won't be helping but with what you have said it has put my mind at ease enough for me to not worry as much :) thank you so much H.....

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I do have one question please. I have mishandled some extended Maori whanau land business really badly and I am feeling so sick to my stomach with myself. I desperately want to fix it.
My mess is fixable with money to $70,000.00. I am being punished by my extended family Trust for my incompetence and stupidity. I’m taking responsibility for everything I need to take responsibility for. My question is will I be able to fix it all before October?
Thank you H..

Hi
Okay so it feels like it won't be able to get all done by October, and I am sure that you did not do any of this with any bad intentions for anyone so stop feeling so bad.
Jill

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Hi Jill
Had a very interesting evening the other night at the Q & A show! Looking forward to my reading with Jodie, I am leaving this til the end of July as I have some annual leave then.
In the meantime I have a health related question for you, I have been getting itchy skin for a few months now and I have tried all sorts of things, like change my soap and soap powder, cut back on diary foods, antihistamines, various creams etc just wondering if you can give me any insight into what is causing this as it is driving me crazy! And it seems to be getting worse.
Thanks G...

Hi G,
It doesn’t feel like it’s anything you are eating or putting into your body it actually feels like your having an allergic reaction to dust mites which can be quite common especially if you are prone to allergies of any other sort. You can be tested for this by a doctor.
I’m pretty sure they can also give you cream which can ease the itching. I hope this helps it would also seem like you might have an annoyance with something else in your life that you might be trying to figure out, I’ll let you work on what that might be as I’m sure you won’t have confusion with this as it’s something that’s annoying you at the moment where you have been indecisive about which way to go or what action to take which won’t help with the frustrations you are feeling in your body at the moment either.
Kind Regards
Jody.(AC Rep)


Hello There
Well I have the feeling that it is from an internal source. A relationship that may have run its course or snowballing somewhere it shouldn't. I believe it is another relationship other than a romantic relationship that needs to be addressed. A daughter or someone that resembles that to you or it may be a relationship that she is in. You know that there are issues there and you are suppressing the thoughts or comments instead of releasing them. Try to find a way to talk to her and share in a non challenging way. I feel after you address this, your skin will clear up.
Teresa (AC Rep)

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Hi Jill,
My name is D..., we had a session with not so long, and was very helpful. One thing I had not thought about to ask you was whether I was having a job change in the near future.
Since then there have been changes that has left a lot of uncertainties. I am wondering if you are able to advise please.
Many thanks, I look forward hearing from you.
D

Hi D...
I sense that you are having some uncertainties that are making you question if you will undergo a job change in the near future. I do not see an immediate change for you at this time. You will want to look around and discover your options
All the best Jacquelyn (AC Rep)

Hello There
I do see a job change coming for you. Changes don’t mean bad things, usually things need to be sorted out, and changes make way for that. With uncertainties come choices, so you have the chance to make choices.
For us to grow with life, some life changing choices can come with that. For you I see something in the lines of marketing or office work of some description. You will find a girlfriend there, who you will get on like a house on fire. This will ease your change of job and make you feel more comfortable. The new job will also make you feel more confident with yourself as you would have achieved this change yourself.
Teresa (AC Rep)

Hi Teresa,
Thank you both for your replies, it sounds interesting. I will just have to wait to see what is around the corner then ;-)
I work on my own in a retail business. So do really miss having workmates.
Well thank you again.
Kind Regards, D....

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I had a reading with you last year and also a psychic party at my house in Hamilton. I have moved to Perth in the last month, things are going great - I have started seeing a great kiwi guy, but I'm just having trouble finding a job at the moment.
I just wanted to ask, can you see me finding a great job soon?? I am getting a little stressed at the moment as my savings are slowly disappearing! Anyways would be awesome to get some advice!
Hope you are well!
Cheers, N

Hello There
The move was good for you in so many ways. Yes I do see you getting a job. I do feel you will end up with a job that will pay the bills to start with not a 'great job'.
As you get comfortable in Perth, you will have your feelers out to find that great job you’re looking for. You will decide what you actually want to do in the time you are at the 'pay the bills job' and you will come to know exactly where to look.
Thanks Teresa (AC Rep)

Hi N,
I definitely feel there’s a job coming your way it feels like it’s not what you would normally do but under the circumstances you agree to it until what you are really looking for comes along, it does feel like you will enjoy this job though and meet some good people thru it. I feel like you should know within the next couple of weeks about this job if you haven’t already.
The relationship you have at the moment feels good and I feel like you both have a lot of things in common he seems like a generally nice guy with good intentions .He also feels like he’s quite settled and knows what he’s looking for in life. Hope this helps.
Kind Regards Jody(AC Rep)

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Hi
I had a personal reading with you at the beginning of the year when my beautiful grandmother had just passed, within days. You reassured me that I would have a successful career which I believe is correct as I feel I have a lot of drive and passion to do well within the financial industry. My question(s) are in regards to my relationship.
Do we have a future together? We both love each other so much but have issues to work through. Will we travel together? What do you see installed for me and my partner during 2012? I look forward to your response. Thanks
K....

Hello There
I feel you do have a future together. To find out things about ourselves it usually takes something big to make us stop and take a look.
As you work through these issues that crop up they will help you understand yourself and your partner better than before and through that understanding you will have formed a better relationship. Although the issues can be quite damaging, this is usually what is needed to force us to deal with a situation.
Your reactions and his reactions to stop it have been blown out of proportion so look at the situation. I see travel for you both after some sorting, I feel Europe somewhere :) and with you stronger together, this will be enjoyable for you both
Thanks Teresa (AC REP)

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Dear Jill
Thank you for your reading the other week. I have been doing my best to apply the things you gave me and to focus on wellness as much as I can.
I do need your further help if you can. I have hit a lot of anxiety at times and I really need to get at the bottom of it. So I apologise if this is a longer email than needed.
At times the anxiety (a range of symptoms on top of and mixed with the physical) becomes so severe that I can't stand it, and it exhausts me further.
I cannot override thoughts going round and round and the dreadful feeling, and I never could. I suppose now, that it’s the fear or knowing that I cannot control it, and therefore not become well, and that no-one can help me that's part of it, although I had it at the beginning of the illness before I had been through the last 29 years.
I have a level of this anxiety all the time (for years) and on top of the other stuff, it’s just hell living like that.
I did get a lot better in health many years ago, but it took major efforts to achieve and a lot of things in place that I do not have now. The anxiety crap disappeared while I had a partner and for a few years after that on my own, and during those years I made a lot of improvement. Eventually I could work. (I wasn't %100 though). Then after a few years, it started coming back and the whole disease started unravelling again, no matter what I did I could not control it, and I ended up bedridden, etc, etc, and never stopped deteriorating. There is a lot of fear with all of it now, as it’s very scary when the tiniest exertion affects one for days afterwards.
My Mum does want me well and does not want to keep having to look after me. She resents it very much, and I understand that, as there isn't anyone else to look after me, but it’s stressful. I need more than anything, for myself as well as her, to be able to look after myself for the rest of my life. It doesn't seem much to ask.
I hope this is not too burdensome
Thank you very much, A

Hello There
Firstly there are a range of things a doctor can do for anxiety and I’m sure you have explored them. They can help take off the edge so you can think clearly and when you have your mind clear you can decide where to go from there, cut down or carry on.
Medication and diagnosis has also come a long way so getting a recheck or re-diagnosis could be helpful to you, as I do feel it’s not quite what first thought. Now for you, I feel that your scared constantly about relapsing, this causing your anxiety. Stop worrying about failing and focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. You have to truly want to get better and feel good.
As you well know no one can do this for you, only you can do this for yourself. You start your downward spiral of thoughts yourself, no one else, only you control your mind.
So whatever anyone else says it won’t cure you, only you can cure you. Ask yourself why are you feeling like that? When it starts to feel bad, why, what triggered it?
Take control of your thoughts, only follow through with the thoughts which are constructive not damaging
You need to do things for you, find hobbies and something to fore fill yourself.
Go for walks to get energy and a clear mind. When you shower imagine all the negativity washing off your body and down the drain never to be seen again. Make goals, small to start with and grow them, I will walk by myself for 20mins today. And small steps let you mum go for an hour to do something for herself and see that you feel good about letting her have some space too. Your own space is not a bad thing; yes you do think by yourself, you know this, so fill it with thoughts of what you want.
Your mum loves you so much and she will do this for you forever, you have to decide whether that’s how you want it to be. I do see you having cycles throughout your life, and you know what it takes to get well, so you must start that for yourself and your mum. Actions are louder than words, so you have to show yourself and your mum that you can get better. Love being you. Love your mum. Love an activity to do. You can do it but it takes work. Believe in the good of people and in yourself. Love yourself.
Love Teresa(AC Rep)

Hi A,
Unless we have been in this position we can only imagine what you might be experiencing but I feel like you need to make the decision of whether you want to fight this or not these are really your only choices, I feel like you’re tired but at the same time I feel like if you came right before, then it can be done again and with some of the things we have suggested to try will help, but at the end of the day only you can decide which way to go!
It feels like your mum is tired to but would do this again if given the choice as most mothers would for their child that’s what they are here for unconditional love no mother wants to see their child hurting in this way but she wouldn’t want you doing this alone either.
So I guess the ball is still in your court so to speak. Have you looked around the last time you started getting worse to see what might have triggered it to get worse again or what was happening around the time that you felt better I still feel like something can change this for you .I feel like meditation could help with the anxiety as well. I hope this can help you.
Kind Regards
Jody(AC Rep)

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Hi Jill,
I find that work is always on my mind and I can't seem to put it behind me once I get home. There are a number of major changes proposed in the company I work for, which will directly affect me.
Am I wrong to worry about this? Even though I work hard I feel that in the long run this won't count for much. Should I be looking at these changes as an opportunity to move ahead in my career with this company or elsewhere?
Thanks A

Hello There
I don't feel it's a worry more of a change. Definitely look at this as a way of up skilling in your current work place. You do work hard and that doesn't go unnoticed. I don't feel you will change companies but more move to a new job in your current work place. It's more a feeling of uncertainty and change which you are picking up on and is making you feel uneasy. Look at this as a great opportunity to move on and up.
Teresa(AC Rep)

Hi A,
Change is inevitable for the company and it will directly affect everyone including yourself...I see yourself being shifted to another job, maybe not what you are looking for...but certainly something until you are able to train yourself into another position, that you want to be part of...
Try to not worry...and turn your focus on the changes as a new opportunity for positive change for the better for you...hope all goes well for you
Heeni (AC Rep)

Hi,
Thanks for your answers; it's great that they are both the same. It seems like things are starting to change as of now.
Cheers

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Hi there
I have recently gone through a bad relationship break-up. There are children involved, and things finally look as though they are getting on track. I have a very good friend that I have been spending time with, and have developed these feelings that I have never felt before.
Am I wasting my time here? He is quite a bit younger than me. Is this something that I should preserve as a friendship, or risk going down another path?
When I’m with him, I feel more alive than I have ever felt, we can talk and talk for hours, and we have so much in common. It may sound strange, but when we are together, it feels, deep inside, that he is the other part of me. I’m not sure. I’m confused and don't know what to do. I guess because he is scared of the kids, and I’m happy to wait for him. But am I opening myself up to a lot of heartache, or is this something that I should go for??
Thanks, I

Hi I,
I do see you happy with this person, and I see the children looking in from the out skirts of this relationship, find a balance between the two.
Find ways especially with the children so that they still feel part of this relationship by involving them in some family activities together, I can see everyone happy with this relationship
All the best, Heeni (AC Rep)

Hi I,
I think you already feel that this is something worth experiencing no matter what the outcome is, for this to be in your reality for you mean’s it’s worth taking that chance. It definitely feels like a great thing that you and your children could benefit from.
It will take a bit of time for them to get used to him and him to them but up ahead looks great and lots of fun times, but you definitely feel like deep down you already know this you just want the go ahead. You got it from me!!! : )
Kind Regards
Jody(AC Rep)

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Hi there
I have recently started a new job and career but I'm not sure if it’s right for me. I was wondering where you see my career going, whether I will stay in this job for awhile or what will happen?
At this stage I have no idea what I want to be or where I want to go, I just need some direction.
If you need any more information please let me know.
Kind Regards
C

Hi C
At this time this is the right job for you, as you settle into this job and spend some time there, you will get a feeling of whether you like it or not.
The main thing I feel is you find something that you really enjoy doing; this will be your guiding direction for a job or career choice.
I see you staying in this job for a little while (months), by this time you will know what you really want to do, see this job as giving you time to think over your choices and a stepping stone to your ultimate career path
Hope this helps, Heeni (AC Rep)

Hi C
It feels like you will be at this job for about 6mths or so and in that time I feel like you meet people and are guided towards something that interests you. It also feels like you have either thought of studying or are doing so as it’s quite strong around you at the moment, I also see contact with family.
Whatever you are doing for work at the moment is ok for now and has its purpose for getting you to where you are heading and it seems that you have forgotten exactly what you were asking from a job before this one came about as to why you are at it to begin with. I hope this helps.
Kind Regards
Jody(AC Rep)

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Hi AC
I am still trying to find myself and have worried about my son J… and my dreams. I am interested on working on a cruise ship as security so will see how things go.
N…..

Hi N…..
'Finding yourself' is not something you wake up one day and realize you have done, rather it is the search and journey for oneself that brings you to a point of understanding oneself sufficiently as to feel more connected to self.
It is not that your search for self then stops but rather that it reaches a point where you relax into the journey and start living life with a wonderment for each day.
It is the intensity of your need to 'find you' that suggests to you that you are lost and it is also that same energy that has you feeling less connected to your son J….. Which you have consciously translated in to 'worry' about him.
It is interesting that you are looking at work on a cruise ship as security as it feels like the cruise ship is more about wanting to escape to something new rather than going on an adventure and it is a new kind of 'security' that you are looking for in your life right now.
I am not saying that to pursue this is not right, but I am suggesting that you should sit down with a pen and paper and picture yourself taking up such an opportunity and then write down what you are feeling in the core of your being. Is it a deep sense of longing for something that such a journey may offer or is it a deep sense of excitement that almost makes you jump out of your chair thinking about? The answer to that question is key in you determining where to from here?
Love Kylie,

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I have a question for you and your team –
In July 2009 I was rushed to hospital for an emergency operation where they found a cancerous tumour in my large bowel – I had been suffering from what appeared to be severe constipation over a period of a couple of months – the tumour had blocked my bowel and hence nothing was happening – I ended up with an Ileostomy (bag) for a period of eight weeks – once this was reversed and things settled down I was advised strongly by the Oncology team to have chemotherapy treatment for a period of 24 weeks because of my age as a precaution against he cancer spreading to other parts of my body – which in due course I agreed. I was started on a 3 weekly cycle of Xeloda in the form of tablets the first couple of cycles was fine then I developed a terrible rash mainly on my legs and became very itchy unbearable itchy – so they decided to take me of this treatment and give a rest period of 6 weeks. I am in week 3 of being of now and still the rash is there and is spreading over other parts of my body under legs and arms mainly – they will then start me on another form of treatment which will start around the middle of January 2010 in the form of injections 5FU for a period of 16 weeks.
Other than this side affect I consider myself to be very fortunate as I feel very well and I always think there are other people worse of than I have been
I would like to know
A) Is this rash from the treatment and will it ever go away or is there something else causing it
B) Will the new treatment cause the same reaction
C) Am I going to be ok now and endure not endure any other problems
Regards
M.....

Hi M….
It feels there was a conscious distaste for the concept of having the follow up treatment in the form of the Chemo and that you agreed to it almost against your own internal knowing. It feels like this rash is the result of a more conscious level of rejection (irritation) with having the ongoing treatment, hence appearing on the surface of your physical i.e your skin.
I feel like this is also the reason the rash is still there and is spreading, with the impending continuation of further treatment you are still sitting in this conscious dilemma.
I can tell you that I see the potential for you to be healthy (in fact healthier than you've ever been) in your future without the need for further medical intervention of this kind but it actually feels more right for you to make a more personally informed decision by undertaking two processes right now.
The first is to explore your own thoughts (knowing) about you and your body - I feel like you have already questioned why the cancer has shown up and I feel like you already have an understanding of the link between physical, psychological and emotional so you have the ability to allow yourself to get/stay well.
However you also have some understandable fear and concern with it and that is why I believe the second part of the process is to do some research around the Xeloda and injections of 5FU and the type of cancer you have recovered from - look at the statistics and information and then see how you feel about it.
The reason this is important is because whatever you choose, you need to feel you are making the right choice for yourself and of course then it will be.
Love Kylie (AC Rep)

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Hi Jill,
I emailed you several months ago and asked if you had any idea when my Dad's house would sell.
He had passed away in June 2010, I had been told it would most likely sell in December but you told me it would be approx middle of this year. - I am writing to tell you that yesterday my sister phoned to tell me his house had just sold -it had been on the market for well over two years.- so thank you, you were right on the money.
I have one or two more questions I would like to know about. - We will get a small amount of money out of this sale, and we will pay off a loan with it but still have some left over, we are currently renting and our rent has just gone up and we have been looking & thinking about one or two options, which are a bit different, but would suit our needs at the moment and had basically arrived at a decision about what we want to do then we got the news about Dad's house.
The option we are looking at is renting a warehouse with living quarters - even if it is basic because it will suit what we want to do right now. Can you see this working out for us, I am thinking of getting some money out of my Kiwi Saver to make this happen and was thinking about maybe lease to buy in 6-12mths, can you see us in this place, if this option is in our future?
Also can you please see what would be the best option for weight loss for me, Optifast, Acai Berry or Bodytrim, I would really, really like to have surgery as it was extremely successful for my husband but do not have the funds for this and I really,really loathe myself.
I do have a great job, which I really like, but seem to spend hours listening to other people’s problems and some of them really are big problems, but it tends to make me so tired, I’m not sure how to handle this.- my marriage is so happy I can't understand how other's don't communicate , share & talk like we do. (I don't mean we never argue)
Lastly we went to Aussie for a Wedding & holiday in January and had a brilliant time, was 1st time Hubby had been overseas, sometimes I think it is at the back of our minds about living over there, can you see such a move in our future?
Sorry to write so much, but I was so impressed with your answer to my last question
Please give my love to Dad & Mum who have both passed over.
Love
E........

Hey thanks for the confirmation..yay!!
It feels to me like your rent has increased in order to motivate the two of you to come up with new ideas, new visions but I feel that while you are doing this you are limiting your selves you might like to call this ‘being realistic’ It was just that when I read your email and where it said ‘will we get a small amount of money’ I felt like you are asking that from a space of doubt instead of desire but I do feel you will end up with everything you expect to do but there is a potential for you to have more but you will both have to change your thoughts to maybe that of some that may be a little unrealistic but you both need to think bigger to do bigger because there is a potential for that sitting there.
I just feel bigger and better options will come to mind soon and send you in a different direction from the idea you sent me it feels like at the moment the two of you are processing ideas and I just feel you haven’t quite reached the best one yet so keep looking at different options for now because the right one is still to come.
Other people’s problems at work add a dimension that you should be embracing. You don’t need to understand their situations or relate to them you only need to share your own experiences of your successful relationship and telling them that you can’t relate to what they mean because you don’t have those problems is perfect to make them look at themselves and their situations. Instead of having someone telling them that is normal and happens to everyone, thus justifying the nightmare they live. If what you have is good share that with others!! For you.........it helps you to become more confident, better at communication and probably makes work more interesting as it doesn’t have that much to offer you in terms of the job itself, it’s like you know it so those other dimensions are currently what hold you there, still learning, still there.
There is the possibility of going overseas to live, as you have opened that up to be one, but it doesn’t feel like it will be your next move.
You can tell your parents yourself. Whichever one of your three weight loss options feels right to you.
Kindest thoughts
Jill

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Hi Jill,
I thoroughly enjoyed your psychic party last night – thanks. I am booking a personal session shortly but I really want to ask you about my friends C and A.
They have had a terrible time in their marriage and I wonder what is in store for them. Do you see them staying together?
Thanks
A....

Hi A
Thanks for the positive feedback.
Well they both feel really stubborn and I see things staying pretty much the same which is not a good thing it all feels like a battle of wills and they both just need to decide whether they want this or not then take the steps towards that decision. But getting them too is another thing!!
Jill

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Hi Team,
6 weeks ago, a group of us received individual readings which were great.
Recently my partner has decided that he is going to Australia to work in the mines which he leaves on Monday. I would like to know if there is still a future for us or if I should let go and we both get on with our own lives?
Thanks heaps
N......

Hello there
I feel that you will part for some time, as you think it is the best thing to do for the circumstances.
With your new found freedom you will experience different things that you maybe haven’t done in a while, letting your hair down so to say and reconnect with yourself.
There will also be a lot of time for you to reflect on your relationship and what it means to you, what he means to you. Sometimes the only times we figure things out are when we are alone.
He will be missing you too though, and thinking the same as you. I feel that you will come to a conclusion on what you want from your relationship with him and what 'you' want is actually him. So in time I do see you back together
Teresa(AC Rep)

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With regards, I write to you to see if you can help me. I cannot pay you, to determine who pushed my brother N.......from the shore in the sea and my brother drowned on 08.11.2009.
He was 24 years old. If you can tell me: -how old he is, any specific features, colours of eyes, hair, height, weight,….of the person who pushed my brother.
I would like to know in which place and position on the scheme I sent you, where exactly this happened to my brother.
I sent you photo of my brother and the scheme of the place where it happened.
Thank you. T.....

Hello T
It definitely feels like your brother was in the wrong place at the wrong time!!
I feel like there was a couple of men involved and that your brother knew things that were of importance towards plans of an illegal matter within a small group of men that he shouldn’t of known, I also feel like he had a blow to the head area and that he was unconscious before he hit the water. The two men in particular were of medium build both had dark hair, 1 had facial hair and a small scar on the left eyebrow I feel like one of them was in his early thirty’s the other was younger; in his twenty’s.
I feel like there’s an area down further from the sea stairs where a lot of people go, especially at night.
I also feel like he was in the water for a while before they found him. He’s giving me a sense that even with this knowledge it is still not enough proof to accuse men of their ranking.
I also feel like N...... didn’t feel that happy around the time of his death like he had concerns about where he was heading as far as his career was concerned not that he didn’t enjoy what he did just uncertainty on where it was taking him.
He misses his family and sends his love; he says he checks in on you all. I feel that you yourself have experienced his presence with you. He wants to give you confirmation of him being with you as I feel like you’ve thought that maybe you were just being silly I feel like he rests his hand on your shoulder and stands with you sometimes. I hope this helps.
Kind Regards
Jody (AC Rep)

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My partner and I are planning our first overseas holiday. We have been engaged for a long time and are thinking of finally taking the plunge before we go and turning this holiday into a honey moon.
Is this the right decision for us? Is now the time to get married and if so how do you see us doing it? I have a few ideas on what I would like but cannot make up my mind; my partner hasn’t a clue (typical male). =). Thanks team

Yes it feels like you should go for it and half the fun is in making those all important decisions it all feels really good and will go well better than you expect and men are meant to know otherwise then we would moan about them interfering, lol.
Look forward to the excitement
Jill

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Hi Jill
I recently attended one of your shows and was thrilled that you were able to give me a message. Thank you.
In the reading you asked about the man in my life that I fancied. I said there was no-one as I have not told my friends of him as yet.
I would appreciate any messages you may receive regarding him.
Kind regards
K.......

Hey I remember you lol. I remember that it felt quite good and you should just go for it but get your worrying thoughts out of the way.
Jill.

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Hi team I need your help.
I’m with a wonderful man; he’s the nicest guy you will ever meet and such a wonderful family man. But ever since we got together 4 years ago, my social life is taking a hit for the worse.
The thing is he is so shy! So painfully shy that other people avoid talking to him because it’s just awkward. I have a lot of friends...or I did have a lot of friends but over the last 4 years I have been seeing less and less of them.
With partners in the past I have always enjoyed socialising with my girlfriends and their boyfriends, hanging out as couples and doing stuff together in groups. But they no longer invite me to do stuff like that anymore. Through face-book I see that they still meet up and do stuff together but we no longer get invited. They still catch up with me on my own from time to time but I am not being included in the group activities.
The thing is I can’t blame them, my man really does just sit there scowling and looking uncomfortable and has nothing in common with these guys. I love him but it’s taking a toll on our relationship.
It’s hard to be attracted to someone who doesn’t have friends or doesn’t go out and do anything, he just wants to hang out at home playing play station and drinking by himself and if I tell him to go out and have fun he has a pity party about how he has no friends.
I miss having friends, I miss socialising with others and not only that but I am so jealous whenever I hear about my friends having fun without us. Will we ever have any mutual friends? Even just one couple that likes both of us and wants to do things with us!. It’s got to the point now where I don’t even try to invite my mates and their partners around anymore because my mans shy and awkward behaviour makes me ashamed and because I know their boyfriends’ will be dreading the awkward boring conversations they will have to have with my fiancé.
R.....

Hello There.
I get the feeling he doesn’t have many reasons for wanting to socialise... meaning he doesn’t feel he has things to contribute. You being a comfortable socialiser, chatty and bubbly, coupled with a quieter man; you can give some encouragement and bring out that side of him. Ask him questions on why he doesn’t want to go out; what does he not like about your friends etc.
Find out how he is feeling and how you may be able to assist him with those feelings. Look at him from an outside perspective, put yourself in his shoes, what does he do for a job, what are his hobbies/interests etc. Do you come up with great conversation points? And of course honesty, telling him exactly how it makes you feel. Communication with him is the key if you can get in and understand from his point you will be halfway there :) but he has to understand you to. He needs to feel good about himself to glow in even a shy person’s way.
Try gently as you may get hostility. Yes you will have friends but try matching the men together first and then see how you fit with the female. I certainly hope this helps you at least start the ball rolling in the right direction, baby steps.
Teresa van de Wetering (AC Rep)

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Hi There,
My mother passed away three years ago. I have been told to be patient (not one of my virtues) and I will see signs from her.
As yet I haven’t seen, heard or experienced anything. Mum and I were very, very close, she was a spiritual person and I suppose that I expected her to come through somehow.
I am disappointed that I don’t feel or see anything and I question my faith. Could you please help?
Thank you
D....

Hi D.....,
What I would like you to try for a moment right now is to just let your whole body relax .......
There is a lot of resistance when we are in the physical, the opposite of that relaxed feeling. You seek to feel and confirm your mother’s presence, for the most part when you feel lost, alone and in reminding moments you used to be in touch, but it seems you are focused upon the absence of her before the looking for her.
Your vibration needs to be in alignment to where she is no , so you need to focus upon whether you are aware of her or not in those moments you feel joy, when you are laughing with friends, or just as you begin to relax into a deeper state of sleep. She is without resistance and so when you are in your most relaxed state you will have a better sense of her.
Whenever we have a thought about someone crossed it is a sign from them that they are here with us but your question is more based upon how you can have a better sense of being with her. Try this and see how you get on.
Jill

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Hi Jill,
Just after having a reading with you last week, I took on board the advice you gave me and I’ve been consciously trying to change the way I see, think and react to things. Just over the weekend alone my partner has already noticed the difference :)
So firstly, thank you so much, he listened to the tape and freaked out that someone said exactly what he was thinking; he just didn’t know how to say it without upsetting me....haha I know.
I feel so much better!!
The question I wanted to ask you was about a bowl. My nana gave my mum a pottery bowl before she passed away and it meant a lot to my mum. I had my family over for a potluck dinner a few months ago and the bowl, having leftovers in it was left at our house. I cannot find it anywhere and mum is pretty upset with me.
Any idea where I might find it?
M...

Hi M....,
Thanks heaps for the positive feedback. Glad you guys have some sanity back.
As for the bowl I keep getting it on the ground outside which is kinda weird?
Love Jill

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Hi Jill,
Just a note to say thanks for Thursday night, a lot of my guests got a lot out of it and others were just amazed at your gift.
Mum although upset on the night, is most impressed that she will contact you to organize a private reading. It was a truly enjoyable evening.
Thanks E.....
On a different note, I have been thinking a lot about your abilities/gifts, and I am keen to bring this out myself, I was told once that when I was ready it would start as dreams and then progress. So when I now dream of myself giving birth, it is only a matter of days before someone tells me they are pregnant, which is lovely. BUT I have had some terrible dreams about my 2 middle children, one was that my daughter had drowned and in our back yard, the weird thing was that she was wearing clothing she had not yet received, and it was in a pool that had not yet been received, these items were given for presents by other people, and last night I dreamt that my son had been hurt quite badly in a car park, and was slowly crossing over. I woke before the dream completed, but had to go and check on my son to make sure he was ok.
Both of these children run circles around me, and I do long for a bit of piece but never to see them hurt or worse. Do you think these dreams have any meaning at all?
Thanks
E...

Hi E......
Okay.... Your dreams about pregnancy and birth was about you giving birth to new ideas or starting new projects at that time and the reason you then heard about pregnant people etc was just the reflection to confirm to you that your dream had meaning which you would have been questioning but everything always needs to ultimately come back to ourselves as a further description of our feelings. Whether in a dream or everyday life.
Your dreams about your children getting hurt etc has to do with you feeling unable to take care of all their needs at the time and unable to be there for them as much as you think you need to be, so to counterbalance this you need to tell yourself that your children have their own inner guidance source that watches out for them as well and doesn’t need to be solely your responsibility and to lighten up on yourself.
Dreams can be great for objective insight into some of the feelings that we are having and truths we maybe do not want to look at. It’s always about you!!!
Water always represents emotions in our dreams so maybe feeling emotionally unable to be there for the girl the way you would like to be and maybe not physically able to be there how you want to be for the boy so maybe keep telling yourself the message above and work on emotionally connecting to your daughter better and doing things with your son more.
But it’s not a big deal or anything.
Hope this has helped
Jill

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Hi Jody
I would really love to hear from nana V..... W... I think about her all the time and I feel like she’s watching over me and my family. C....

Hi C.....,
I get a feeling from nana that she has a big family and that family is very important to her, she say’s lots of children and grandchildren she also shows me crafts like weaving, knitting etc that she did when she was here.
I feel like she used a walker or walking stick towards the end of her time here, I also get a beautiful scenic view of hills and land like it’s a view that she looked at lots that I hope you can relate to.
You mentioned a sense that she’s around you, I definitely feel like she checks in on her family from time to time, she has a great amount of pride for you and the family and misses you all.
I also feel that a couple of the grand children sense her presence as well. She sends her love and God Bless.
Love Jody (AC Rep)

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Hi Jody
Can you reconnect me with my dad and A......S......
Thanks C......

Hi C.....,
When I think of your dad I get flannelette chequered shirts and I feel like he was a kind man with lots of love to give.
He was well respected by those around him and he’s been around you recently and watches over you often.
I feel like you’ve been through some frustrating times recently and he wants you to know that ‘it’s going to be ok’. He sends his hugs and kisses.
A..... feels like she was a close friend to you and I pick up a bit of confusion around her passing, it’s also taken A...... some time to work through her own feelings towards her passing but she feels settled now and I feel like she’s has been passed for awhile and has had the time to process things. She’s saying she misses the good times you both shared but also mentions how far you’ve come. Hugs to you xxx
I hope this helps Jody.

Wow Jody you couldn’t of hit the nail on the head any better about A......... if you tried….She passed away from a car accident back when we were in high school and I was so angry because the girl that caused the accident was attending the same school and because of how the funeral was for me I was unable to attend her burial.
At school we very close and did share some real good times and I miss her very much. As for dad yep flannelette shirts he wore heaps, I do feel him around a lot but he seems to be the only one I can pick up on. I have other friends that passed the same year as dad that would be good to talk to them sometime… big hugs back to dad an I miss him lots. C......

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Hi Jill
I have a few things going on at the moment and just wondered if you see any light at the end of the tunnel for me, family, moving health any in sight would be great thanks
R....

Hi R....,
It feels like it would benefit you to be focusing more on what you have ‘joy’ about over your day because when I look into your life I keep seeing all the things you are wanting out of reach or a need to wait? And it feels like this is your reality a lot of the time so rather than say I see things will be alright and may take a while to get happening, I would rather offer the suggestion of how to get you closer to reaching things how you want them to be and I see this being able to happen when you focus for longer periods of time on the ‘good things’ that turn up over your day, as small as they may be to start with, doing this will increase the ‘good moments’ being able to happen in your day and bring you into a better alignment to the things you want.
Hope this has made some sense, try it out for a couple of days and let me know how you got on. It just feels like you’re sitting constantly in a need for things to be a certain way but can’t quite get there. This will help.
Jill

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Hi Team
I just wanted to know if u could tell what you see for me and my family, in the next six months please.
Y....

Hi Y....
I feel like you will be in touch with someone from overseas who will be coming here for a holiday; I get lots of hugging, lol.
Emotions feel a bit up and down to do with a relationship connection, just feels like a need for more certainty about what is happening in that area.
I don’t really get anything big and major a lot of your circumstances feel like they stay the same. It’s like there seems to be a bit more focus on what you are wanting to do for yourself personally, I feel like that’s getting figured out.
From Jill

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Hi Jill and Team,
I was hoping you would be able to help answer some questions regarding my mum,
1. My grandfather passed away a couple of years ago now and this has caused a family feud. My mum no longer talks to her sisters at all and it has made the family split in several ways. Are you able to see if there is anything that can overcome this in the near future?
2. My mum has had a pretty hard life both financially and with partners in her life. Can you see this getting better anytime soon? As much as my brother and I don't mind helping her with finances, it doesn't seem to benefit anyone in the long run.
3. My mum’s new found love seems to be a nice man; do you see this working out for them?
4. Do you have any messages from anyone that has passed over as there are many!
This is for me - 5, do you see my son’s anger issues getting better anytime soon, will my daughter do ok at school and will I find my dream career/role?
Thank you so much for your time....
Kind Regards
S....

Hi S...
1. It feels to me like it will be quite some time before the family heals the situation and that for the most part; it relates to how they are all individually dealing with their grieving and it feels like it has to do with ‘who done what for him’ etc and certain family members are addressing their own guilt issues and for the most part don’t want to deal with having that challenged.
I think what your mum has noticed is she is caring less and less or being bothered by the situation less and less. It feels like everyone can deal with their individual grieving process over the loss of him, this way.
So it will be a while (possibly years) and then there will be ongoing ups and downs anyway. I don’t feel that the grandfather is upset by this but perhaps he initially was, I just feel from him that he never really felt all the kids should be buddy buddy anyway as this always made the interesting gossip possible over the years but he did always feel they should have been better connected with him more often, he now realizes he still has this.
Your concern feels like it’s coming from a place of concern for your mum and also feeling uncomfortable with your own connections with family now so what I suggest is that you support your mum in whichever way she is experiencing this for example if she says it doesn’t really bother her then tell her how glad you are for her that she feels better about it now, like giving her permission to feel okay without a resolution.
It all relates to how each of them have needed to deal with their grief regardless of the physical battles that they may all think it’s about. Phew that was long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. You all need to stop helping her out for her to learn she can solve her problems but offer suggestion and guidance to her situation but if you keep solving her problems for her or remain under the illusion that you can then she will keep creating the same experiences to learn from. Inspire and encourage her.
3. I feel like he is a nice man to but he feels like he is only an experience for her so may only be around for a while but re-establishes her belief in relationships.
4. I feel that they are pretty good at getting their messages to you anyway.
5. You will need to change yourself and your perspective of the situation with your son in order for the circumstances and behavior to change and you will need to be committed to changing things.
6. You would need to clarify what your perception of doing ok in school would be? I mean we all go through experiences and we all pretty much end up okay???
7. That will be up to you, I keep feeling like you are needing to be more committed to your life and where it is heading instead of going through fazes.
Just for future service this email option is really just for people that don’t need a whole reading and just have one or two questions.
Kind regards
Jill

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Hi Jill
I am looking forward to doing the course with you shortly. Things have definitely been rocking in my world. I do have a couple of quick questions that I would like clarity on if possible? I would like to know if the man coming into my life that you talked about is someone that I have spent time with in the past few days.
Also I have given up my job at C.... and have been offered an opportunity to work my business out of T..... Am I supposed to follow this? As it involves weekends or should I stick with where I already am?
Thanking you in advance
Kind Regards
B.....

Hi B....
Just get yourself into a ‘yes’ mode as you have created everything in your reality to unfold and help you reach your desired goals; I normally say ‘yes’ to things before the person finishes their sentence lol.
Would be a bit different if this was perhaps just an idea you had and were wondering whether it would work out or not, but when someone walks up to your life and says ‘hey do you want to .....’you just go ‘yes’ to those things unless it goes completely against your common sense. And for you to have created this then you must have thought about working from somewhere else or maybe just not wanting to be where you are as much.
The very fact you have worded this as an OPPORTUNITY in your email must mean it is!!! Not to sure about the man, except enjoy the journey and the rest takes care of itself.
Jill

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Hi Team,
Could you help me? I am at my wits end but keep coming back to wanting to know ‘what is ahead in my future?’ I feel like I have been going round and round in my life; it’s almost like the same old same old. I thought I was finally getting there and then someone came into my life and messed it up so bad that I started to feel incompetent and lacked confidence.
Now I’m stuck not knowing which way to turn. I know where I must be heading yet there’s so much doubt or obstacles in my way that I lose focus so easily.
I guess I need more than coaching, I need to know; ‘Am I heading in the right direction?’ Am I doing the right thing? In my heart I know I am but I just need a kick start.
Kind Regards
D.....

Hi D....
‘The finally getting there’ part was you feeling yourself strong enough to enter into a relationship at that point in time to bring forth the experiences you needed to now be sitting where you are more sure of the things you want and of the things you don’t. You have to stop with the mindsets of feeling like you are messing/stuffing up. It feels like this was perhaps a shorter relationship than a previous one so you’re working through your experiences faster and sometimes having them short and messy is far better than enduring a longer period of feeling like you are in the wrong thing. So I think you have made a lot of progress. You’re putting yourself first more these days, you’re more aware of things sooner and you know you can be okay on your own and you know that this is not however your preference, but that you will be okay.
You are trying to get somewhere but you don’t know quite where that is, just some reality that you can call ‘happy’. But it’s never an experience or a destination or a person that enables us to be happy, we just end up with different things to moan about, lol It’s much simpler than that and comes down to a decision that you have the power to make and that the decision for you is ‘to be the one to decide how you feel, for you to be the one that controls that, for you to be personally responsible for your own feelings and in this decision it takes away all the power from everything that you’re currently perceiving is determining ‘how you feel’.
You feeling angry with someone isn’t making them feel accountable, it’s only upsetting you! And you have the power to change that.
You feeling lonely and vulnerable won’t give your life company, it will only upset you! And you have the power to change that.
We are all heading in the right direction as there is only ever expansion of what we know and of the who we are, each of us know more than we did yesterday and will make wiser choices tomorrow than yesterday because of it. I think you really want to know whether there is an easier path you should be taking and I want to say yes as soon as you decide it is.
Sometimes we feel so backed into a corner with nothing left to do but to just surrender to life and when we do that we see life still carries on and it becomes more about an allowing, a realization that what we create unfolds and the job that we have to do is to tidy up how we feel about it all.
These are only your experiences for now and they can change as soon as next week but why is it that you’re still feeling as messed up about things as you were a few years ago? It is not because you have slipped back or unlearned some stuff or made wrong choices but because you still haven’t learnt to feel okay with it ‘all’ okay with life and okay with your-self.
Learning to be ‘spiritual’ is about learning about yourself as the definition of the word means ‘inner nature of man’ and ones ‘higher quality of mind’ so don’t think for a second that all this stuff you are emotionally going through and the confusion you feel and the evaluating of your life you are doing, don’t think for a second that this has nothing to do with a spiritual journey because it all has everything to do with a spiritual journey. Welcome to the path that’s only ever been yours.
Love Jill:)

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Hi There
I would love to connect with my mother M…. M…..
Thanks, S

Hi S,
M…. feels like she wasn’t that tall she say’s ‘not that tall at all’ and gives me a feeling that people around her in life stood taller than her. I also feel like she was good at making things and sewing. I get a patch work quilt with the squares and she mentions family pictures and ornaments that were hers and also a cabinet.
I feel like she was a good mother with a lot of knowledge that she shared with her children. I feel that she has been passed for a while now but she’s aware that you think of her often and sends her love….. She has a sense of pride for the things you’ve accomplished in your life and I’m getting a fish pond with bright orange gold fish. There alterations around the home at the moment also.
Love Jody (AC Rep)

Hi Jody,
Yes my mum was not tall. She did enjoy making things and sewed many items of clothing for all of us throughout the years. The lounge walls were virtually covered with family pictures as family meant a lot to mum. She was a woman of vision and encouraged us all to do well in life. We have been making alterations to our home and it’s lovely to know mum is keeping an eye on what we are up to. She passed just over 8 years ago. I think of her often and miss her so much. Thank you for the reading. S.

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Hi Jill,
I am so sad my little boy that died J…. well his cat died this afternoon and we don’t know why, he wasn’t even sick. Please tell us why and how we are all so sad now we have nothing of J….. left.
M

Hi M
Stop being so silly!!!!You have soooooo much of j…. left, all his memories, photos, old things etc and the most important of all listed is the memories and they are something that can never leave you and J…. is probably wrapped to have his cat with him in spirit.
It feels to me like you are feeling this way because you found the cat a way of still being in touch with him by noticing the cats behavior changing and this was good for you in many ways but it feels like you are now ready to just need your own feelings and senses to be aware of him, it feels the cat was something you were able to trust and you’re feelings weren’t so, but for the cat to exit the physical plane is because you have developed your own awareness enough now to be able to trust it enough now to now further develop yourself in that trust to a communication process with j…. which would not have been able to develop further while the cat remained in the physical so in saying this you can look forward to surprising yourself with an increased awareness of j….. but you need to let go of your annoyance of losing the cat and feeling like you lose everything and from doing that you will be able to view what you have gained.
Keep moving forward M… and you will come across understanding for the things that confuse you today, eventually, somewhere, somehow.
If the cat was to exit the physical plane then be glad that it wasn’t a horrific death or long drawn out painful one. Phew!!!! That was long..........hope it made some sense.
All my Love, Jill  

                          

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Hi Jill
I had a thought relating to the world wide disasters. Would it help if a grid of healing, a particular day and time to ask Archangel Uriel to advert such advents, or to heal and recover in their after-math.
Yes I know all this is for a better world, though as light workers can we help.
Cheers
luv M

Hi M
I think we all are contributing to the wider collective and I think everything and all is a direct reflection of what balance we have within ourselves at this present time, we can all send love and light, hope and faith upon those in the tragedies of worldwide disasters but we are sending that from a space deep within ourselves that first and foremost needs to be of love for one’s self. Our angels, guides and those alike do not need to be asked to help for they are fully aware and have been actively helping with balance since the beginning of time.
So how we can ultimately help most effectively to the collective? By allowing, accepting and loving ourselves and when we learn to do that there just will be a more balanced earth, as the imbalance has stemmed from self loathing, self rejection and self hate amongst ourselves as human beings and as that has increased our world disasters have escalated. We cannot change what’s outside of us without changing what is inside of us.
Hope this made some sense
Love Jill

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Hi Team
I would love to hear from my grandparents R…. and E…..
They never got to meet my son and I would love to know what they think of him.
R…….

Hi R
When I think of R… and E…. I get a sense that in life they were into gardens. I get an image of fruit trees and a big vege patch. They are showing me a memory of you when you were little holding their hands and they mention how much your little fella looks like you.
I sense that life seems great for you at the moment with lots of good times and laughter to come especially with your son. I feel like there are more children to come if there isn’t already. I get a sense that R…. went first and E….. some years later but are together again now.
It definitely feels like there was distance between their crossings. They don’t feel like they are missing out on seeing your son grow as they are watching, just from a distance .Your doing a great job being a parent, they are proud and send their love to you all.
Love Jody (AC Rep.)

Hi Jody
Yes Poppa went 1st and many years later Nana. They both loved gardening & poppa always had a huge vege garden. We have just found out we are expecting number 2 !!!!!
You’re on the money Jody!!!! Keep up the good work.
Thanks again R

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Hi Jill
I have a few questions and would be grateful for your insight, I'm a little lost at the moment I work part time at 2 jobs (fulltime together) and enjoy what I do, for the past year the jobs have felt stagnant and I have become unhappy, I feel that it is time to move on, I have been looking around and have applied for a couple of positions that I was well qualified for and was unsuccessful, there are a few positions that have come up a little different from what I do now
1. What are my chances with these jobs, will they get me where I want to be?
2. If not these jobs what should I be looking for and where?
3. How far away is a new job for me?
Thank-you for spending your valuable time I appreciate whatever you can tell me
J….

Hi J….
1. Every choice is endeavoring to get you to where you want to be
2. Just wanting more than you currently have will bring about inspiring new options to your life so the what and the where will come to you also.
3. Not too far away as you are not a person to sit on the fence, how long has been the longest time you have ever been without a job? My guess is not long? So this time should be no different.
Love Jill

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Hi Team,
If you are able to I would love to hear from my grandma, her name is G…….. Thank you very much.
D

Hi D,
G….. feels like she had a good life and that she enjoyed her time here. I get flowers around her because she admired beautiful gardens and loved the smell of them.  She loved to cook & bake treats and It feels like she really liked the outdoors.  I’m getting a rest home, like she spent time in one and it feels like your grandfather went before her.  There seems distance between their crossings.
She had strong family values and is mentioning grandchildren and what a wonderful family you have. I get a connection to overseas around you and also car tyre trouble, like new tyres recently or coming up soon, nothing major.
G...... says you’re doing a great job with your life and she feels proud of you and sends her hugs and kisses. She also mentions a rocking chair, quite an old styled one.
All my love, Jody (AC Rep)

Hi Jody
Thank you so very much for the message from my grandma G….. You nailed her pretty good, YES she was in a rest home and YES granddad passed away before her.
She was a very special lady and I loved her so much.  I think we have a special family and we are very close.
I brought a new car recently and have been discussing tyres with the hubby. Grandma did have a rocking chair, but not sure what happened to it.
Once again thank you. D…...

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Hi Jill
I came and had a reading down in January of this year and since then I have been thinking about what you have said. I have one question for you. At this time I am sort of seeing someone but I'm really unsure if this is what I want.
On one hand he is everything that someone would want, funny, caring, and good looking, supportive and has a great job.
I sometimes find myself thinking that yes this is what I want and see us having holidays together etc but then on the other hand he is and can be very in my face, not sure if that’s the right words, about how he feels about me and what he wants.
I feel that he is further into this relationship than I am, I think that I’m still at the getting to know each other stage where he is at the ‘in love’ stage.
I guess from you I'm asking what you see with us. Sometimes it feels right then other times it feels wrong.
Thank you and I look forward to your guidance.
A…..

Hi A…..,
It feels to me like there is some chemistry lacking for you, so rather than evaluating whether he’s right or not question instead the reason ‘why’ you have met him and what you have been learning about yourself from this connection.
Sometimes we just need to start thinking about the right questions to ask ourselves to see the clearer meaning to our experiences. Everyone is important to our journey just sometimes in other ways to how we think.
Love Jill.

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I’m N….. and my brother A……. has passed… could you please bring me some confirming messages from him….. Thanks.

Hi N…..,
I feel like you think of A...... often and sometimes feel him around you.
He’s giving me a memory of a photo album; I think he’s been around you when you’ve looked at old photos recently.
He misses you and the family. Do you have a grandparent in spirit because he’s showing me an older gentleman with him like he’s not alone.
He feels like he would have been a little scruffy & untidy in life when he was here but easy to get along with.  A…. is mentioning something about a plane and traveling and a member of the family buying a new home.
It feels like he was in some sort of accident and felt somewhat responsible and it has taken him awhile to work thru all he felt about that. But he’s ok and watches over you often. Phew!! That was long he can talk.
I hope this helps Jody(AC Rep)

Thank you so much for getting back to me… It really helped answer a lot of my questions, just one thing I’m not sure about and that’s the plane thing but I guess sometime in the future it will make sense. Other than that everything was spot on…. He passed away in a car accident 6yrs ago and he has 3 grandfathers in spirit with him.
Thank you so much once again. N…….

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Hi,
I come across your website by accident but felt compelled to read through it, I especially liked
the ‘food for thought’ and the one on ‘children’ and absolutely agree I am going to save this and view it to remember how great it is to have three beautiful children in my life.. Thank you for sharing. Xx
I would like to ask for some advise I haven't being speaking with my family (mum, dad, sisters and brother in laws) for over a year as I felt that the relationships were toxic at the time to me and my family, I have being pondering whether they care as they have made no effort to see me or my kids, and whether or not it’s the right time to make amends? I say this as I do believe they will never initiate this.
Thanks
T….

Hi T…
Thanks for the positive feedback!! I feel like you need to check in with family every now and again to see how it feels to you now and you might just have to do that for a few years yet. It’s kind of like leaving them for long enough to figure out what they need to about themselves and whether that’s going to be a positive influence for you or not and in one of your checking in times it will feel right to you to have a relationship with them and then and only then it will be right so I feel what you are experiencing right now is a curiosity more than anything so don’t be surprised if you just end up getting reminded of why you can’t be bothered and then in another year or few months you will get curious again and then one day it will just be right but I don’t feel that that day is yet!!
All my love
Jill

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Hi there Jill/Team,
Lately I have felt very confused about what I want to be doing for a career/with my life.
I am qualified for a certain career but did not like my first job in this field and have no idea what other job in this field I would like and if I could get a job.
In the mean time I am working in a casual job but it does not pay very good and it’s not where I want to be for a long time etc.
I am looking at other options (away from my trained profession) but really don’t know what I want to do.
I feel like doing something that involves different cultures/different countries etc.
Could you please help shed some light on the situation, as I keep going over it in my head and not getting anywhere?
Is what I am trained in really for me, as I don't know myself? What can you see me doing?
Just feel so confused.
Thank you,
D

Hi D
I feel like you are creating experiences for yourself in order for you to reach those decisions for yourself so you are not meant to know right now what exactly you are meant to be doing because it feels like you just need to do the next thing that comes along, so variety is your spice of life for the next couple of years then you will know.
Love Jill

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Hello Jill,
My Aunt gave us your name as someone who could put my mum’s fears to rest over what is coming in the future for:
Our family
The business
And much more
We don’t know how this all works but at present we face a very unsure future in regards to all the above items if you can help us in anyway please let us know.
Thank you

Hi B
What I get with the family is a great deal of support there for one another so things are transpiring in order to bring each other closer at this present moment. There will be a change of home for your mum who feels good and when I look into business I feel there will be loss but in respect of there needing to be change as the energy around business feels life less. These changes that come about will be fresh new beginnings in generating income which will involve new people also.
Kind regards
Jill

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Hi Jill,
I came to see you last year and you advised that I should be less stressed about money and that you could see a purchase of an adjacent block of land, I guess I’m writing for some reassurance as at present we are in a position that we have to face the possibility of selling our existing land or assure our bank that we can come up with a fairly high sum of money to keep them happy. I recently made an application for a job that would have suited us rather well which was along the lines of a job move you foresaw however was unsuccessful …..So in short I am starting to stress about money, stress that we may lose the land we already have and feeling a little lost and dejected. I am trying to remain positive as positive attracts positive in my opinion however it is not an easy feat at this time. I also wonder if you can tell me if the relationship between my father and my partner will ever improve as this is also an issue.
Many thanks and a huge congratulation on your recent success in winning the People’s Choice Award for Best Nationwide Team Building – most deserved.
A…..

Hi A
When reading through your letter I felt totally fine about your situation and feel the job didn’t work because there will be something better for you coming up soon if not already. So in short I feel like giving you that reassurance and the stress never helps so keep trying to refocus your thinking when you are feeling anxious about these changes, it all feels fine to me and the situation between your partner and father feels like you need to stay right out of as if they are to ever establish a workable relationship it needs to be established because they want it not for you but for them I almost feel like your involvement, comments etc only add fuel to the fire that’s already there, just pretend it doesn’t matter to you until it doesn’t and they will work it out in their own time.
Love Jill.

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Hi Jill
I would really like your insight into my current employment situation. At present I have two part time jobs, one of which is a job I have been waiting for since leaving school and is my dream job. The issue I have with this job is that it is only part time and there doesn't appear to be any full time positions on offer in the near future. My other part time job is one I'm not entirely happy with, but is filling the gap at the moment. I have just heard that my hours at this second part time job are going to seriously diminish. I would like to know what 2011 will bring in terms of employment. I am starting to look for upcoming work but I don't want to leave the first job that I love so much and I have waited so long to get. Can you tell me what sort of job I will be looking for, if my hours will increase at any of my current jobs, and also a timeline for this to happen? Where should I be looking? I'm really not sure where I'm headed but am looking to be satisfied in my work.
Also, can you tell me anything else that is on the cards for me and my family for 2011.
Many thanks for your help and insight.
Love R.......

Hi R......,
It felt like there did need to be a balance of two different environments for you to work in to give to you the contrast of the past and the future. I feel like you should be looking for other part time employment somewhere else along the same lines to what the great dream part time job already is because you are right part time isn’t enough and full time does not feel like it is right there but I do feel it will surface later on but in the mean time a second part time job even doing the same somewhere else feels good.
It does not feel like it will be 2 much of a struggle to do that. The full time situation feels like about 7 months away. You definitely need to stay where you are in the current great part time position well you will anyway because you still desire that, things only fall away from our lives when we don’t want them anymore as you have had the recent example of in your other employment. Your work actually feels great over the next 12 months and I think that has a lot to do with you feeling like you’re on your way anyway. I keep getting something about a clinical environment too don’t quite know what that means though??
I keep picking up a child with you as well as a potential outcome this year.
All the best
Love Jill:)

Hi Jill
Thank you so much for this insight - it is very helpful and sounds spot on with how I'm feeling at the moment. I was a bit nervous about leaving my part time job, but know it is the right time to do it and what I need. I have health issues which are being compromised at the moment. Great to hear everything is going to be sorted - I can start to relax and feel at ease! I have such a passion for my part time job and would love to have another job in the same industry.
Thank you so so much for this, and for taking the time to reply. It is much appreciated.
Love R.......

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Hi,
I'm feeling a little confused right now. I'm unsure as to how much effort I should be putting into being in New Zealand, because I don't know if I'm meant to be here. And if I'm not, I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time. I have spent my whole life dreaming of the US, but never won a green card so just haven't gone. Last year when I applied again to go, I really thought that this time it would happen, but I won't know until May. Do you see me winning the green card this year and finally heading to the US for good?
I have never really lived in NZ. Last year I got back from J...... Normally I'm in A...... I can make things work here and I could look for a job, but am I meant to be here? Am I wasting my time?
Which country am I supposed to be in? Which one is my ultimate home?
Any guidance would be appreciated. Thank you very much for your time and your vision, Warm blessings T.....

Hi T....
What I got to start with was that you can create a life for yourself any where you choose, but then I had that there would be family commitments come up and you will want to be close to them for a while, you will end up in America and I feel what is lacking from this dream is all of your ideas of what you would do once you get there kind of like confirming with life that you have a plan when there.
Life does look quite good for you though but there needs to be more sustenance more desires otherwise you will go somewhere and then go .....what's next??
All the best
Jill:)

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Hi there
Can you please help me out with a question, I am have family problems that has taken its toll on my heath, my husband is now applying for jobs out of this area so we can get away from it all and have a fresh start do you see this happening for us?
I just want to get away and start again and put it all behind us get my heath back and start living again thanks for your time
V......


Hi V......
Feels like you do need to move away and will and this feels like a good thing as you already believe it will be. Moving away from everything does not necessarily mean we will feel better about it all, feeling better about it all can start right now for you by deciding not to care about everyone else and what’s going on because once you learn how to do this then you will be able to be anywhere and not have others affect you so much, feels to me like this has been an ongoing lesson for you and moving away is not meant to be what you are ultimately learning, although at the present time it does feel a positive. I get a 2 month time frame as far as new work for your husband. Who actually has a lovely energy and there’s lot you can learn from him around this.
Kind regards
Jill:)

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Hi Jill,
I saw you about 1 year ago, you said I would be having a fourth baby, but I have to persuade my husband yet. Still no luck persuading him! Is it still on the cards or do I have to forget a fourth?
Thanks heaps A......


Hi A.......,
I feel like you just need to let go the focus of it for it to happen and it does not feel like you need to persuade him it feels like he would just come into a natural feeling of a desire for that but not while he’s having that coming from somewhere else will he see his feelings about it.
So yes you do need to forget about it but for the reasons above. Because in the big picture of things you need the energy the baby’s created from to be something you are both secure with your own feeling that you want it because that’s what your original desire was but you just needed to trust life and it would of taken care of those dynamics more effectively than you own attempts have been.
Love Jill:)

Thanks so much Jill! I will take your advice! SOOO appreciate your time.
A......

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Hi there,
I have a quick question, my 3 year old daughter M....... has started talking to her 'friend' who she calls J..... He is invisible. Well to us at least.
She says he is 3years old and is constantly playing with him or talking to him... Is he just her imagination? Or is there something more to it?
Thanks,
M....

Hi M....,
It’s always something more than imagination, lol.
It feels to me like it is a child she met in spirit just before she was born and he has stayed in touch, so to speak. It feels totally fine to me and unfortunately over time when society entrenches her in a more ingrained physical reality then her sense of him will dissipate and I say unfortunately because it is what has happened with time to most of us.
But the good news is that with natural evolution we have evolved consciously and now children are entering a lot more aware so it is recognized more by parents these days because they are holding ‘the light’ longer where as in earlier times we lost sight earlier and it went unnoticed in children because by the time they/we were 2 we had already begun losing our sense to the energies of the environment but these days because we as their parents and initial guide to their lives believe more and know more we don’t tend to dismiss it as imagination so readily so in turn don’t tend to dismiss it automatically with our children we have a belief that there is an intangible reality there to be experienced so in turn allow them that but its still new to us so we question whether to have concern and that in turn keeps us from nurturing that in them..................Wow I think I said a lot of that for me as well lol...But at your end if she seems to enjoy him and has fun then that’s your truest indicator of her situation/experience.
Engage yourself in that with her? Monitor that and see how it goes? Dismiss it? Which would conflict your own beliefs. There’s actually no problem with whatever you decide, no one being better than the other, just your choice as her mum.
Jill:)

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Hi there,
I am the mother of 2 beautiful boys who I love dearly, but I have really struggled with becoming a mother. I feel lost and confused at the moment as to what goals I have for myself. I feel as though I am trying to help myself, and not getting too far.
Am I a hindrance to myself? Do I just need a shift in thinking? To top things off I feel really self conscience in this skin for a person much bigger than I was before!
My husband has been an amazing support though this tough time but I feel I am wearing him thin. Any guidance would be appreciated enormously.
Thanks,
S.....

Hi S.....
I don’t know whether to just reply or suggest you and your husband come and see me for a consult so I’ll do both;
It feels to me like a lot of your issue is to do with emotional imbalance and trying to control your emotions, your either really great or really sensitive and emotional and it doesn’t feel like it has to do with the physical aspects that are going on as much as it is you just needing to feel more centered over your day but in that imbalance your just end up feeling bad about how your affecting everyone else.
I think you were already struggling with yourself before you were struggling with becoming a mum and because the children are mostly responding with love and also your husband then your left sitting in guilt kind of like a no win situation and no you aren’t doing much about it but that’s because you don’t really know where to begin and personally I feel like I would need a personal appointment with you and your husband for me to cover off what would be required and to give a lot more understanding so have a think about it and let me know, it’s like you require a life coaching session to give you a step by step process with workable goals in focus.
Love Jill:)

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Hi Jill
About a year and half ago I came along to a group reading with a friend. You said that you saw me in Australia. We could not afford a holiday at the time of the reading and certainly had no plans to travel but a few months later we ended up with an unexpected cash injection, so with no thought about what you said, we impulsively decided to spend it on a holiday to Australia. It was only a few months later that I remembered what you had said. Anyway we absolutely loved it and decided whilst we were there, that we would like to move there permanently one day, once the kids were old enough to fend for themselves. Do you see this happening in the future for us?
During the reading I also mentioned that I was concerned about selling my house and I wanted to know if I was going to have any more children. You said the house would take longer than we expected to sell and that whilst I wanted more children, I had already made the decision to put babies on hold until we had sorted that situation out. You said when the house was sold and when we were settled into our new home, we would fall pregnant. It took a year to sell the house but during that time we still tried for a baby with no results.
Well we sold the house have been in our new house for two months now and I have just found out that I am pregnant! I just wanted to thank you and confirm that you were right on the money with my reading and I am very impressed!
I would like to ask a couple of questions regarding my pregnancy though. I am nowhere near as sick as I was with the last baby and whilst this is good for me, I am so scared that everything is too good to be true and it means something could go wrong? Do you think everything will go well for us and the baby? In the last reading you said I would have a girl, do you still feel like I will have a girl?
Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions – you really are amazing!
Kind Regards
A......

Hi A.....
Yes I do see you moving there in the future probably sooner than you think.
I still feel a girl and everything will be fine.
Jill

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Hi Team,
I have been in my current relationship for 5 years but a few months ago my partner moved out. We have a child together and I can’t help feeling he’s not interested at all in his son.
He’s making noises about wanting us to get back together and spend time together. Some days I think we are meant to be together and other days I question if he’s serious about me or it’s just easier for him to be with me than starting all over again. Should I be giving this another go or should I be moving on and looking for something else out there? I question whether I trust him or if it’s just my insecurities. What do you think?
Thanks, R….

Hi R....,
It feels to me that both of you have outgrown each other and have very little to gain from one another, there are things between the two of you that are hidden and being kept from each other, nothing major but just stuff that you should be able to express easy to each other.
I feel like your sons needs are getting met and this is all you really need to be focusing on because it feels to me like your partner contact or lack thereof, seems to make little or no difference to this child, so why let it affect you??
You are both very use to being together and change is not always easy and maybe you do need to see each other a bit more before it all dissipates so allow yourself that if that’s what you need to make it easier but don’t put yourself under some illusion that it can be great because your connection to one another feels very drifted and there is a lack of desire and intention of effort from both of you for the relationship to get back on track.
All the best and chin up and there will be someone new for you in your life next year, let go of this one.
All my love
Jill

Hi Jill,
Thank you very much for your reply. I thought I wanted to read the words “yes, go for it, your meant to be together”, but as I read your reply, your words make perfect sense and feel so right. Thank you so much. This really means a lot to me.
Thank you, R….. xox

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Good morning Jill,                                         
Here's a few questions:

1. My partner has been really distant, is it something that he needs to work out or do we need to sort it together? Do you get anything in particular on his mind?
2. On our online chat said I am pregnant, do you see us in NZ for the baby? Will I be able to manage study and baby? Feeling overwhelmed!
3. My friend L..... has been having a tough time in the last month, what changes do you see coming for her?
4. When we get back, where do you see me working (location and profession?)
Great to chat with you :) thanks again :)
A......

Hi A.....

1. Your partner just feels to me like he has a lot on his mind....just worries about everything working out that’s all. Just give him a lot of reassurance which it feels like you have been doing anyway.
2. It feels like you will manage study and a child easy peasy, busier people are always the ones to ask to do things as they will get them done for some reason the busier we are the more time we have, quite ironic really. Look to the people you know that have busy lives they seem to always be able to fit more in. I get an image of you very pregnant in NZ but don’t see anything past that, don’t know why either. But feels all good.
3. I see more of the same for L..... unless she changes her behaviour she seems to have these patterns and habits that need to be broken, she has a move too.
4. I get central-north of the north island either Hamilton or Tauranga in teaching.
All my love
Jill

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Hi team
I am considering studying next year but I am unsure if it is the right decision for me. I do not want to waste money on a course I will never use (I have made this mistake in the past so I am scared of repeating it). Do you see me studying next year? And do you have an idea what I should do?
Also we are trying to find a better house for rent but cannot find the perfect place. Is the perfect place out there for us? Or should we stop being so fussy and just take something slightly better than where we are currently? Do you see us shifting any time soon and do you think we will stay close to home?
Thanks for your time. W....

Hi there W....
Feels to me like you need to have a better idea of what work you would like to go into before taking up study so for now maybe a normal run of the mill job would be good for a while as I feel this year you have been under quite a bit of emotional pressure and need some time just to chill, and take stock of everything.
It feels to me like you will want to stay close to home so will find something in the same area and also perseverance is needed right now to find the right place but it does feel like a move is coming up soon in about a month.
Jill

Hi Jill
Thank you for your response. You mention a run of the mill job, which is something I have not even considered as I have a toddler and a baby.
Are you suggesting I put them in day care and go to work this year? When I was considering study I was thinking of doing it via correspondence so I could be home with my girls.
W.....

Hi W......
Yep day care
Just to get you connecting to people again and using your spare time for quality time with the kids. It feels to me that if you study at home you would feel frustrated with the kids more than anything.
Kind regards
Jill

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Hi there
I have lost my very meaningful diamond ring and was wondering if you do email questions or know anyone who does?
Kind Regards,
S.....

Hi S.....
The most important thing you can do to start with is believe that you will get it back. I keep getting a feeling like it’s been taken off or moved to do some cleaning then gardening I just see it somewhere on its own, but I do feel like it is only lost not stolen and that the potential sits there for you to find it, it feels like it is in or around your home as well.
Hope this has helped
best of luck
Jill

Hi Jill
Thank you very much I appreciate your help.
I did take it off to do the dishes and my partner moved it and I believe it is lost outside.
I will hire a metal detector this week!
Thank you
S......

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Hi Team,
I don't know what to do my partner lost his job and doesn't seem to be that interested in finding another one in the mean time I am going to work having to come home and cook tea and do the house work while he plays on his computer he says he has applied for the odd job but there is ‘no proof’ that he has.
I feel like I am the only one putting in the hard yards and not spending on anything as I don't earn much and most of it goes on the mortgage.
Help I am getting soooo tired, he needs to get a job.
Getting desperate, H......

Hi H
It feels to me that it’s not about ‘no proof’ necessarily as much as it is you feeling that there is no desire from him for work and with no desire then no job so half hearted about it which will only bring in something part time or odd bits and pieces on the side, which doesn’t really help your situation enough.
I feel like I want to bring this whole situation back to you and the real core of the problem being that you both have different goals and you are beginning to outgrow him. Changing is something for him to decide but for you, you need to give yourself a time limit on how long you plan to be the one carrying the load because I can see this continuing for a while.
Wishing you all the best though.
Jill

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Hi Jill,
I came and saw you back in September – you said that I would meet a man before Christmas – well I am happy to say I have meet someone although I don’t know how he feels he seems to be a very closed book.
I have tried to ask him but he won’t give me a straight answer. Should I push the issue or just let it go and see what happens. I guess I feel I don’t want to waste my time if he isn’t feeling the same way.
What should I do?????
Kind Regards, G……

Hi G....,
I wish you were here.......so I could give you a great big telling off!!! I feel like you are slipping back into some old patterns. You have no right to demand for someone to tell you how they are feeling when you don’t have that answer for yourself. You only ever need to push an issue with yourself.
How do you feel about him???
What do you want?
What do you need?
Do you have these answers?
Try just to enjoy the day you’re in with him when that happens and take note of how you are feeling instead of worrying how everybody else is feeling, because you can’t control any of that anyway, but more importantly than anything else in your email I feel you are needing to recognise more how you feel, then you will have the answers to those questions I listed above.
Everyone facilitates us with an experience to learn and find and discover more about ourselves through. Enjoy what you are learning about you then nobody can ever be wasting your time
Happy thoughts
Jill

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Hi Jill & Team,
My life since my reading with you has taken a wonderful path. I am so happy & excited and I'm ready for new challenges. I am thinking of doing one of your courses and having another reading and will contact you in the New Year.
My very sick mother- in -law is getting tired and weary and I feel that she is starting to suffer, not much quality of life and I just wish that she could move on as she has battled to stay with us all. The family can look after themselves and get over the petty problems that have marred her last few years. I feel that my father-in -law will come for her near his birthday, but I pray that she doesn't suffer. Are my thoughts correct? Many thanks, M....

Hi M....
I feel like saying to you to remember on some level there are all of her reasons for still being here and her reasons for leaving when she does but I do feel that you have a good sense of things.
Kindest thoughts
Jill

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Hi there
I have a friend who has just had a miscarriage. She has seen you before and was told that she would be having a third child despite having ivf for the first two children and this not being an option for the third. This was a miracle pregnancy for her and I am wondering if she will still have another child or if this was the child you were talking about.
Thanks for your help J.....

Hi there J.....
It feels like the decision is still in her hands.
Jill

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Hello AC,
I am feeling rather despondent and of course it has to be over a man. I have been on my own now for over ten years and watched my friends meet the `right one' and it seems that I will be the last one left, forever on my own and yet I am a giving person, have lots of friends and people seem to get on with me.
I have been friends with a man for many months and was attracted to him but realised he didn't really feel the same so that was cool and decided to move on but then all of a sudden he wanted to be involved so we became romantically involved then hey presto he wants to go back to being friends! Talk about confused!
I do have feelings for him but also see that he would be incredibly frustrating to be with and I probably deserve better but there never seems to be better. I am so lonely and would love to find somebody who would generally value me and I'm sick of putting a brave face to the world. Don't get me wrong I have a good life, great sense of humour and am very strong and independent - I just want to be loved. How do I get through this?
V....

Hi V....
It feels okay that you are having some connection to this man as long as you are just living in the moment and not putting expectations on anything as this will block new love from entering you life, so still see him but realise that a while ago you were not so sure what you wanted in a relationship and this man has helped you get a better idea probably more so from examples of what you don’t want lol.
It’s not only knowing the type of person that you want but also there needs to be some focus on what your ideal relationship would be like. So sit down with a pen and paper and map out your ideal relationship, not ideal partner but ideal relationship. It feels like someone new will be entering into your life in about 6 months.
For now try and have a better diet, take some vitamins, and distract yourself from the gloom that creeps in every now and then and also realise that you are moving forward even though it feels like you are going around in circles.
Kindest thoughts
Jill

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Hi AC
Love the Awareness Corner group on face book, it’s exciting to read other peoples beliefs.
Me, I seem to be very restless, and need to receive clearer messages am I receiving what I want to hear?
I purchased down here in the south island before Christmas, I don’t dislike it here, though I long to settle down where I need to plant my feet for the rest of my time here on mother earth.
Decisions of how much to do on this property; such as replace a window to a sliding door where I have a rotting window sill, my heart still tugs to move to the B...... For my highest good to move north, would I be doing the right move for me to settle down and also have a companion to share my life with?
With love M..

Hi M...
A companion has very little to do with where you are located, it feels like you need to be more proactive about meeting more people for your own identity with the self to be more established.
Your energy is obviously resenting being there so that’s not good for a start so maybe it is time to start thinking about moving.
All the best
Jill

Hi Jill
Very many thanks for the words of wisdom.
At times I wonder why I took on such a huge move from all family, and friends!
It is great to be in touch with your website.
Luv M....

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Hi AC,
Things aren’t well with both of my grandparents who have fallen ill. One desperately needs an operation but can’t have one as her carer, the less sick of the two, we have just found has terminal cancer and I think the stress of it is going to be too much for her ticker.
I’m worried I’m going to lose both of them. I don’t know whether to stand back and let things run its course or to try and persuade her to think of the bigger picture (which sounds slightly selfish?)
Also can you give me some insight into how he is going as he's always trying to make everyone else feel ok and doesn’t divulge much...
Kind regards,
J....

Hi J
It feels like all you are left to do is to stand back and let things run their course and that the bigger picture for you is to realize that on some level we all create our own journeys for our own reasons and leave him to divulge what he chooses because there is not much you can do about it anyway and maybe it’s a humility lesson for him to learn to ask for help when he needs it.
Just share some quality time because that’s what you do have control over and its probably the best thing you can do for them also.
Kindest thoughts
Jill

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Hi AC,
I would like to tell my friend of 12yrs + how I really feel about her as we spend a lot of time together and I have loved her for a long time and it has affected other relationships I have had.
The other problem I am having is my business I would like to know if it will work for me as I am struggling at the moment.
Thanks A..

Hi A...
I think maybe you do need to tell your friend because regardless of the consequences you need to get this of your chest.
However I don’t feel the outcome to this being very good but it does need to stop doing your head in.
It feels to me like a lot of the things you love about her is the way she is able to be a friend? This would change with a different connection.
Your business feels fine but lacks goals so set some, other than that its same old same old.
Love Jill

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Hi AC
I am at a real crossroad in my life, and it seems I have been for quite some time!
I just can't seem to decide on which path will fare best for my future, and if I do it seems something comes up to interfere.
Could you please shed some light on the near future in terms of where I'm headed and also on my love life? Many Thanks for a wonderful service; I look forward to attending one of your weekend courses soon!
N....

Hi N
It feels to me that you have an idea of the type of work that you are interested in but also fear that you will not be good enough, which is why things arise and ‘interfere,’ that’s you creating an ‘opt out ‘ button. My advice it to be proactive with what you want to do and that feeling ‘good enough’ comes with experience, not time and not knowledge. Your love life will be fine as long as you don’t go backwards.
Kind regards
Jill

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Hi
I'm in a happy relationship of 14yrs with two wonderful children, my partner and I feel we have come to a crossroads in our lives financially and personally, are you able to shed some light around this, Can you see if we will remain where we are or move else where
Look forward to your reply
A...

Hi A
I feel like the two of you will eventually settle in OZ for a while and become a lot more financially secure as this is what the two of you have decided needs to happen now.
Kind regards
Jill

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I'm little up in the air on a few things, and hope that you can help me through it.
I've applied for a job at H............. a few weeks ago and had a telephone interview, and also a face to face interview this week, I really want this job, it’s a new challenge that I looking for and wanting. Can you maybe point me in the right direction if this is for me and maybe how to go about it??
Another thing is that my ex partner - my two kids dad has got rather friendly towards me again, but he is also with someone else that I don't trust or like.
I still have deep feelings for this guy who I have been with for 12 yrs, and apart for 3 yrs, wasn't married, but we are still very good friends....... but it feels like there is more to this new partner than meets the eye. I feel that this girlfriend of his has something over him...don’t know what..... Am I reading too much into it?
She has screwed his parents over and I'm afraid that she will screw him over too. When he is here I feel that he is comfortable to be here and doesn't seem to be in a hurry to go places, and when he does need to go somewhere he's on edge....
This may seem funny, but would love to get inside his head and know what he is feeling or who he would rather be with..... He adores his kids and they adore him, my daughter misses her daddy more and more... I feel my kids need a full time daddy in their life, and I feel I can't be a mummy and daddy.
Help need some advice on what to do and where to go.....Cheers
G

Hi G,
Your ex partner only became friendlier towards you because there was unhappiness between him and his current partner at that time.
You both feel to me like each of you still depend on one another as a safety net to give yourselves reassurance that you are still desired all the while leaving each of you unable to fully commit to anyone else and I feel like you will get your own example of this also. Or /and maybe have had it.
The kids feel a lot more settled and don't need the unnecessary confusion when there is very little result in the two of you being able to work it out at this time when neither of you have really been able to fully move on.
You each lost yourselves when you were together and still have not personally developed your own passions in life, your both still 'needing' which feels a lot like the same energy that severed the relationship and sometimes it is great to be around someone that gets us but it's more important that we ‘get’ ourselves. And he like you doesn't really know what he wants and so both of you need to figure that out as individuals before you can make any decisions about anything and there is a need for you to remember why the relationship broke up to start with and not the 'thing' that went wrong but more importantly the unhappiness long before it ended.
H............... felt good but I didn't feel like it would be straight away so let me know how that panned out for you.
All the best
Jill

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Hi AC
I am in a fantastic marriage with 2 charismatic and amazing kids, but both my husband and I have reached a point of not knowing where we're heading both career wise and financially.
Are you able to shed some light on this for us please?
Also, can you see any more children for us?
Thanks in advance
D

Hi D
It feels like the two of need to focus on your own individual goals and goals within the relationship. Having another child feels like an option that you would not mind but more a feeling of ‘may as well’ kind of a diversion from thinking about your own identity which you need to be focused on at the moment.
Another child feels like it’s up to you but I think you should explore some ideas for yourself with a career then you will be clearer on whether a third child will be what you really want?
Your husband could just fly ahead in something if he did a short course of some sort but this idea seems to hold very little appeal but feels like it would be brilliant, I get short term struggle for long term gain.
Both of you need to establish with one another how you wish to see your lives 5 years from now oh and that’s after the imaginary money fairies have been, so you pretend money is not as issue how would you like your lives to be and then when you two come up with this answer you will then feel with more direction. The reason you feel without direction at the moment is because you have no where you’re heading well nothing with certainty yet. So dream big!! Get certainty!!! And go forth!!!
Kind regards
Love Jill

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Hi Jill and team,
I am wanting some help with my health. I have not been feeling 100% for over a year now. I have been to the doctor, a naturopath. I have been on a detox programme and have changed my life style to a healthier one than I had. But I am still not feeling that great.
I am wondering if you could give me any insight into where I should focus my attention to get my health back on track.
Thanks heaps, R

Hi R
Okay I feel your problem is quite mild and has surfaced different symptoms at times that have left you wondering whether the problems are connected. I keep getting drawn to your blood as well it just feels like its lacking or weak or something, but these are just my bits and pieces for now. Your ongoing annoyance of this feels as though it has a psychological connection with your connection to your parents probably sounds a bit out there but this is what I get.
You are quite sensitive which is why food intolerances has been a question for you and yeah some foods affect you because you are sensitive but I don’t feel that this is a solution to other irregularities in your body (don’t quite know what that means but hopefully you do)
Instead I feel you are building further sensitivities to foods as time goes by so for starters start thinking food is your friend and is okay, don’t get too friendly with the bad foods though lol. There’s something about a father connection with you that keeps bothering me?? So if there is any insight to this let me know and I will look further into it.
Jill

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Hi Team
One Question; Do you think I will get pregnant soon we have been trying for 9 months now with no luck and I had a miscarriage last year and we went to the fertility place and they have put me on the waiting list for a laparoscopy to flush out my tubes and check for endometriosis but I really just want it to happen without having to go through this I really don't want surgery and someone messing with my insides!!!
Thanks, J

Hi J
I don’t feel like you need your insides messed with either, why have they decided to do this?
It feels to me like there will be another baby within the next 12 months anyway.
From Jill

Hi Jill
Hey funniest thing.... took a pregnancy test last night and I’m pregnant!! lol only just,... haven’t even missed my period date yet but had a "knowing" when I was at the supermarket, so I went to the doctors today and confirmed it with a blood test. So funny!! Only early days but will enjoy every day.
Take care, J

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Hi Jill,
I would just like to know from you about my present boyfriend of 6 months. I thought we were going somewhere together but recently he sprung it on me that he has feelings for his ex, then 2 weeks after that shock, he said his feelings for his ex are stronger than the feelings he has for me. We still see each other however I have reserved feelings ready for the drop!
In the meantime I have been in contact with my ex, after working on a resentment process I felt comfortable to call him and ask for my dvd to be returned after us not talking for 10 months. We had a great chat and we both still have feelings for each other.
I told him about my situation and he said I need to ‘get my power back,’ after speaking and seeing each other a few more times he says he would like for us to get back together.
My old boyfriend has shown affection and says all the right things, my new one doesn’t, but I fear the crap we had may come back he seems to think we have both worked on our stuff and would be a stronger bond together now. He says he will wait a bit but not forever, for me to make my mind up.
What do you see?
I look forward to hearing from you
Kind regards B

Hi B
The old dvd excuse huh?? Lol. Stay away from the ex and work on what you currently have and if it doesn’t become workable then step forward into something new. At least the new one is being honest or trying to be try and work with that cause that’s what you wanted!! He doesn’t understand why he has the feelings he has for his ex and it feels like he is trying to figure that out, remember to be a friend also.
FORGET THE EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love Jill

Hi Jill
You rock! Thank you so much!!!! Hell you are so right!!! What am I thinking!!!!!! Love ya xxx

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Hi team
So here is the situation; Me and my family desperately want a family home and we are tired of renting. I am a stay at home Mum so we are living on one income and so there is no way we can afford to buy a house at the moment.
I really want to stay home with my babies but at the same time I am feeling like I should get back to work soon to save for a deposit for a house. It does not seem possible to do both and my heart is ripped in two. I would love to shift the family somewhere more suitable, but I really want to be home to treasure these precious years with my children.
I always thought the dream of owning a house was still years away (realistically I was thinking a good 10 years) but I recently had a reading done that said we would start looking to buy a house soon. It got me so excited, but now I’m depressed about where we will get the money from. Should I return to work soon to start saving?
From C


Hi C,
The first thing that comes to me in responding to your question is to remind you that things don't just happen to you in your life, you create them! So, the more open you are to 'unlimited possibilities' the greater the 'miracles' that can occur. Working in with that, I feel like asking you to be more aware of the way you think and express yourself, in your life and about your life, as your email reflects some expressions of helplessness, which is unnecessary for you to carry around with you.
When you got your reading, the clairvoyant saw the potential for you to own your own house soon, I too see this potential for you and the time reference I have for that is within about two years. However, for this potential to manifest into your reality it is important you stay in the excitement of it and refrain from worrying about how it will happen as those thoughts and emotions carry an energy that is contradictory to the 'soon' part of this prediction.
To assist you further though, I believe there are opportunities for you to earn some income while having your children with you (I do not at all feel that you need to sacrifice one for the other). These earnings can then be put completely aside for your house fund. I am told you have a creative mind and although I am not getting a clear idea of what it is that you will do, I am being given the feeling of you flicking this idea over in your mind previously.
While writing this response, I kept getting this image of a house with a bit of surrounding land and a big sandpit in the backyard.
Cheers, Kylie (AC Rep)

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Hi Jill
I have been given your details from my daughter who found you brilliant. I really want some advice. My partner works away a lot and I’ve been rather lonely and thinking about moving to T…… to be closer to family. I have been in P……… for 40 years. I would like to know whether the move is going to be a good thing for me, relationship wise and career wise. I’m feeling scared and unsure of the unknown and would really appreciate some advice.
Signed L

Hi L
I feel like just saying yes yes yes straight away!!! The energy where you are feels a little stagnant and nothing seems to change including the two of you.
A new adventure is just what you both need and as far as how things pan out…..they will be how you create them to pan out and for you to feel more confident with the change you should structure yourself a plan, what sort of work would you like there? How big should your new home be? What area? Etc etc, then at least life knows what to send you.
You may be anxious about the change because you do not know what lies ahead with that choice but what you do know for certain is that where you are only has to offer more of the same.
You will end up doing this anyway, it’s just a matter of time and it will be the time you need to feel ready and that could be next week next month or next year, but you will go there. So you may as well do it soon because the newness you have to face is not nearly as scary as the one you stay there worrying about facing lol
Kind regards
Jill 

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Hi Jill
You gave me and my daughter excellent advice so I thought I would ask for my mum as well. Mum lives in D…… and her husband passed away recently. She has put the house on the market for various reasons and she’s feeling very lost and lonely as so far it hasn’t sold.
She’s originally from T…….. and has family there also, she would really like some direction as to how things are going to pan out for her many thanks.
Sign K

Hi k
It feels great to me that your mum has movement around her as all of these things are taking her mind of her loss a little bit. She does need to however stay focused on the goal at the other end because it feels to me like she is very focused on just wanting the house to sell instead of putting her energy into getting more excited about where she is heading. What you should be doing for her to help; is to keep her positive about the future and focused on where she is heading.
I say this because I feel there is no set time for the house to sell and still looks a while off but that’s because of the focus being on it. So you and she have the power to change that, sit with her and write down a list of expectations for the next 12 months for her its kind of like bumping everything forward, which the situation calls for. These changes coming in for her feel really good though and she will be happy with them.
Thanks for the positive feedback too
Jill

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Dear Jill
I heard you on BOP FM today and was instantly impressed with your readings. I have a question that I am hoping you will be able to help me with. I have a business that is in transition mode at the moment. I need to decide whether to put more money into moving it forward or to walk away and to do other things. I would like to retain the business and keep working at it but I need a sign that doing this and putting more time, effort and money into it is the right path for me to take. Any insights would be appreciated. Many thanks.
T

Hi T
It feels to me like you lack a vision for where you see your business heading. It feels to me that you focus more on a week to week, trying to do more and trying to do better and you probably have from time to time but it feels like life has no idea where you are heading with all this. Even clarifying with yourself what your goal is with your business with help you greatly to structure a plan because then you will have an idea where you are heading, things like: How big do you see your business getting?
If it was to get heaps bigger would you get new premises and where do you see these being?
Do you plan to offer what you have outside of New Zealand/ what is your plan?
It feels to me like there has been some growth but now you are ready for more but feel kind of stuck and intuitively feel the potential of staying the same or it being really hard to grow it more. And that’s because that is the feeling around your business but you have the power to change that by putting a vision in place and as soon as you have some of your vision worked out life will confirm to you that something has shifted and doors of better opportunities will open or they can just keep going round in circles but the choice is yours.
All the best, you do have the potential to do much bigger things so aim high
Jill

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Hi Jill
I heard you on Bop FM this morning so I thought I'd see if you can shed some light on my current situation- I recently split from my little girls father- it was my choice. Now I find myself consumed in what he has been up to, turns out he already has another girl friend, people seem to go out of their way to fill me in and it's driving me insane. I feel like I need to move towns or country or something just so I can start moving forward- I'm a dedicated mother and I want the best for my girl- What should I do? Some guidance would be smashing as I seem lost! Will I find the man of my dreams this time lol...?
S

Hi S
The reason you are feeling so consumed in what he has been up to is because you are seeking life’s little confirmation that you were right in splitting up with him. Let’s put this another way…because the split was your choice, and was a brave thing for you to do even though you had probably been thinking about it for sometime. When we make these big choices in our lives quite often we can then sit in a fear we may have been wrong at least until our life starts developing its own identity again anyway, and when in that fear we quite often look for life’s signs that we made the right choice, so you feel in that but while in that he just so happens to have moved on and replaced you rather quickly which has knocked your ego for a six and that’s ok and quite understandable.
Now many of your friends would probably advise you to shift your focus and meet someone yourself or start going out or take up a hobby and I would probably suggest the same if you were someone else but I feel you have been trying this already so instead I suggest you process this experience by remembering that
• You had wanted this for sometime
• He lost your respect along time ago
• You tried many things to make it work
• It did not get better
• He’s not really having a great wonderful time out there he’s feeling very lost just like you no matter what the picture looks like.
• You don’t need to know he still has feelings for you because you know you don’t for him, these feelings your having are to do with the detachment from your familiar comfort zone, nothing more.
• It can only get easier.
You have already done the best for your girl by severing the relationship and the best thing for yourself by putting your self worth first.
There is no need to move it is better for you to deal with one big change at a time you are just wanting a different stress to focus your energy into gee we humans are funny
This relationship is part of a journey you are on to finding your soul mate and you still feel to me like there may be another couple of frogs before your prince. Learn how to be happy without one for now.
Kind regards
Jill

Hi Jill
I just wanted to say a huge thank-you to you for your words of wisdom- it brought a tear to my eye to hear how spot on you were with everything you said. I definitely feel humbled by the experience and you have given me clarity. I can finally start moving forward. Thanks heaps.                                                                              

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Hi there
Thanks for all your guys help.
My friend left town to be with another lady, but has since decided that he should’ve never left, and is coming back for me.
Is this true or did it just not work out for him and I’m the fall back. I have very strong feelings for this man and am hoping he has realized he made a mistake and wants more with me
Thanks
L

Hi L,
It feels to me that if you were not enough for him the first time then you will not be this time, so its only a matter of time if he does come back so protect your heart.
Best wishes
Jill

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Good afternoon Jill,
Thanks so much again for the reading a couple of weeks ago, and so far has been so accurate and very interesting! I found out what the current partner had been hiding which has now totally wiped out any chance we had left and we have broken up for good (a huge relief really), and now I can move on finally!!
So, can I ask more about the soul mate who is coming quite soon? Where I will meet him etc?? How I will meet him? Can you give me any more details? I am just so excited about it all (and I guess impatient), and I have written down all my quality lists as you said and I look it regularly.
Also I had another question I forgot to ask you at the reading, Do you see me buying property this year in NZ or shall I leave it in Oz?
Thanks again Jill for everything and I look forward to seeing you at the workshop.
J

Hi J
I’ve looked at this letter a couple of times now and really have not got much for you. But I do want to explain that the reason you are impatient is because there is a little bit of a void there now with your partner and you separating and you are not sure about whether you will be strong enough to stay apart from him. So you are wanting something ….now!! I don’t feel like it happens next week but it will happen kind of like Pantene lol, it more feels like months to me as now there is a need to re-establish the self.
I feel your new partner will come along when you least expect which sounds so cliché’ but usually when we stop looking for something it turns up so my advice to you at the moment is to try and focus on the other areas in your life and try to create your own structure for yourself. When you ask about the property I am not feeling that strong about oz like you definitely feel more stable in NZ but in saying this I don’t feel like there is any mad rush at the moment to buy. Deal with one life change at a time.
Jill

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Hi AC
Hope you all are great. Thanks for the awesome course and the great Spiritual Expo. Well done Jill!!!! I have a couple of questions that I would like confirmation on...lol. Am I doing the right thing moving back to the B…….?? I don't want to feel like I am pushing my husband but I think I am because I want it so much. It feels to me like we would be closer as a family moving back and I'm just excited by the whole idea!!!!! I hope I'm not just trying to take a step back in time and resurrect the old feelings???
Thanks for all your time
Love W

Hi W,
The first thing I would like to say is that sometimes your husband needs to be pushed. It feels to me like you definitely see this as a step forward rather than a step back even the thoughts you have around it are about things you want to do not things you want to fix, its all about moving forward.
Your husband sometimes needs a bit of time to process things where as you like to just do them which is actually a nice balance it allows movement forward with forethought.
Your husband doesn’t think you are trying to take a step back in time but it feels like you still need to ask him why he thinks that you think it would be a good idea, I feel he may reply differently than you would expect.
Perseverance is needed right now, remember to be in the moment. From Sam(my guide)….You only need focus on what it is you desire and trust that life will take care of it, don’t let old habits of reason get in the way again.
All the best
Jill

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Hi there,
I am currently 19weeks pregnant and am due the 2nd October. All my scans have told me that there is a single baby however, my mother, who is convinced she is more of an expert than modern technology is convinced there is two.
I was wondering if you could enlighten me at all on this pregnancy.
Thanks and Kind regards,
T

Hi T,
It feels to me like there is only one in the oven lol.
I don't want to say that your mother is wrong though because she's kind of right as well because when I look at you on an energy level there is a second baby around you in spirit, so this means you have either lost a baby in the past or will get pregnant again quite quickly which is great if you are wanting that:)
All my love
Jill:)

Hi Jill
Thank you, you are a doll!

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Hi AC                                                          
It’s been a hectic few months full on, we are looking at starting a business I think it will go well but its the worry involved putting up the money & then it fall over, some clarity would be good. Also do you see us starting a family soon?
Thanks
Love K

Hi K
I feel like a lot of thought has gone into this business and that you have really done your homework. It carries an energy potential for success due to your belief in how well it can do, so hold on to that as you will still have to put in the work and I sense a whole lot of learning around it!
You have asked about starting a family soon and I do feel that is the case however I also feel like saying to you to give yourselves some space to dedicate to the business first so that you can be committed and focused on that.
I feel a sense of 'wanting it all now' but it is prudent at this time to be a little bit patient and by waiting a good 18 months before deciding to start a family I feel that you will be more able to enjoy each experience in the moment. It will also be less stressful for you in terms of your time and finances, both of which will take a period of 18 months to two years to really settle in.
Love Kylie (AC Rep)                                                                                                                                                                    

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Hi there
I am hoping you can shed some light on my employment situation. I have currently left my full time job and am now starting to feel really low as I can not seem to find another full time job that I enjoy or even get an interview. I am stuck doing temp jobs that I don't enjoy either. Do you see any job opportunities in my near future? I am hoping that I have not hit a dead end as I am feeling really useless.
Thanks
S

Hi S
It is all about attitude my friend and the best thing I can suggest right now is to 'check in with yours'!! I feel real negative thought patterns sitting around work for you, both in the past, as well as with the temping as you mention below but while you continue to look at work through that lens, you will not even notice the opportunities when they do surface around you.
I feel like you are struggling with the temping because of the uncertainty it brings with being in a more constant state of learning new things and certainly that type of work is not for everyone and it won't be for you long term either however you do need to be very mindful of how you present, as everyone you work for in that capacity is your potential new permanent employer and I get the sense that you are not always putting your best foot forward and it is important that you do.
Have you been looking at some study also? It feels like you can be quite indecisive about what you want in your life so now is a good time to start looking around, doing some homework and really thinking about what you want and where you want to go.
Love Kylie (AC Rep)

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Hi Team,
I have a question about the paternity of my kids. Is the father who I think it is?! He seems to think differently.
This has been playing on my mind for a while, i want it to stop. I know I should do something about it but am scared of the out come!
We are not together and I have not seen or heard from him for a while. I am a bit scared to talk to him. I need some conformation so I can go in there with full confidence!
Also do you think we would work as a couple if things went that way? Does he still have feelings for me? If he looked past the anger and hate! I felt we got on well when we were together, we just split because....well I don't actually know!!
Can you help me please?
Thanks Fox.

Hi Fox
I know this is not the answer you are looking for but the only response I have for you at this point is for you to take a really hard look at what your overall motive is for confirming this information, as I feel like it is more important for you to understand what is driving your question, rather than the actual answer to the question itself at this time!!
Love Kylie(AC Rep)

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Hi AC,
My life has been changing sooo much lately since I’ve had to move back to Napier in December 09 and things have gone from bad to worse. Just wondering that with everything up in the air, how things will pan out over the next few months. Especially to do with work and my relationship with my boyfriend
Thanks
J

Hi J
The first thing I want to say to you in response to your email is take a look at the events that are actually going on in your life when deciding whether things have really gone from bad to worse as I feel like you have more hope within you now than you had six months ago but are not focusing on the positives that you intuitively know are there because things are not yet comfortable.
Making changes in your life can be likened to cleaning the house and when I think of where things are at for you I am reminded of an analogy I once heard where you pick up the rugs to shake them out and all the dust rises in the air initially making everything look and feel so much worse but you take them outside and keep shaking them and when you take them back in and the dust settles everything is so much cleaner.
The dust in your life hasn't quite settled yet but it will and what will be required then is for you to keep looking at your life and discarding those things along the way that no longer serve where you want to be heading within you. This is because I feel like you have desired a 'clean house' so to speak but it is a process of moving through room by room and deciding what you want to keep and what just makes the place look messy! In some rooms that decision will be easier than in others but to help you in those decisions I am told to tell you to "dare to want the best, expect the best and be open to receiving the best!"
Love Kylie (AC Rep)

                                                                      

 

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Hi There,
I am feeling so overwhelmed at the moment . Money is a big issue. Will things get better? Will I and Hubby pull through this?
He has no idea how bad things are ... I wonder if he is better off without me?
Any glimmers of hope would sure help
Thanks K

Hi K
What I get here is that you have a consciously uncontrolled pattern with money and what I mean by that is that you are aware that you create your own 'money problems' with your choices and this is an ongoing thing, yet you feel unable to exercise discipline with it. I get the sense that you could win money today to cover all your debts and you would only create more 'money problems' and be back in the same position again in 12 months.
I am told you would benefit from getting budgeting advice and counseling and I am also told that you will read that and think, ‘that's not what I need,’ but let me explain why....
It is about getting things in order, learning to be in control and gaining confidence through your own independence. To do that you need to put good financial processes in place first; while addressing the psychology of the issues, as money troubles is only one way that some of your beliefs and traits are being displayed in your reality.
What is key here is that when you tell your husband about this that you have some things to offer up for working towards solutions so he is not left with the full weight of having to try and fix things. This is vital for you being able to feel a confidence that you are worthy of this relationship. Although you raised money as the key issue in your email it is actually about deciding what your perception of a great person/wife is and being courageous enough to live up to that with no excuses.
Hope is all around you, you just have to choose to see it and focus on it. I also have someone in spirit that is very close to you who is around you a lot and I feel like you are aware of her - this energy has a nurturing family connection.
Love Kylie

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Dear Jill,                                                                             
I always thought by the time I turned 70 [now], emotional turmoil would be mostly balanced.
It's not! This story began in 1952, when I was 13 yo. During all of my High School years [in the 50's] I had the same steady boyfriend [we were both born and bred Kiwis]. We 'loved' each other, but as was the custom of the day, Dating was 'scarce' and any outings were usually overseen -or can you believe it -chaperoned! Meanwhile, our emotions 'smoldered' !
He was a Mormon and I was Anglican - which neither family accepted -so with pressure from both families, we parted and went our own ways into Tertiary Education and marriage [to other people].
As a qualified Architect, he moved with his wife and family to Canada 30+ years ago to settle and work. Two and 1/2 years ago -after trying, he said, to find me many times [and now almost 72 yo] he finally located me via online School Reunion Sites. We reconnected via ['normal' ] email exchange and I must admit it was a very nice experience reliving our youthful halcyon days.
He came to NZ for a family funeral 12 mths ago but the circumstances and time constraints never allowed him to contact me on that visit. Three weeks ago [30 June] - after a 4 mth gap - he emailed me saying he is thinking of attending a family reunion in NZ Dec/Jan this Summer - without his wife - albeit still under the same roof they are not 'in love' any more - and he really, really, REALLY wants to meet me again - vis a vis - and travel around our old haunts etc. His whole demeanor towards me has changed, found another 'gear' and escalated emotionally towards me! I am very sensitive to Energy and Vibration 'contact' from a distance - [Clairsentience?] - And have been very aware of the incremental upbeat bounces of Energy from him. At first I found his passion 'to see and be with' me again after c. 52+ years, exciting -and the intensity he exudes has almost thrown me completely for a loop! It's like old times -sans the youth-state! The emails between us have been flying for three weeks now -but a time has come when I have stepped back to assess what is actually happening! Even now, I really can't answer that [from within my 'spiritual' self] -and if two Psychic Readings hadn't indicated 1/... in 2000 AD ... I would meet my Soul mate in a few years time and 2/... a more recent Reading by a 'Medium' told me that something I've been waiting to happen for a long time, was about to happen at last - I may not be QUITE so surprised as I am now at what has been going on, to date... Is he my promised Soul mate returned?
Is it possible for you to give me some indication IF I should go along with what he is planning for his visit Down Under in the Summer [realizing that we did have a significant and deep 'bond' when we were in our teens - unfulfilled 'first love' et al] - but knowing there has been so much water under the proverbial [bridges] meanwhile, that lead us in different directions- and is it meant to be
“the grand reunion" - or are we both being ‘mislead’? .... Thankyou Jill - I am hoping you can give me some news re. soon .... Muchas gracias - and God speed ... Love and Light ...
Sincerely. D....                                                                   
                                                                      
Hi D
What a lovely story thanks for sharing. We would not need all the lifetimes we have if emotional turmoil was able to be balanced at 70 lol. You are always YOU whether you are a young person, an adult, an old person or a spiritual being, your still you, you just become wiser and build upon the knowledge you already have.
I think the generations that have preceded us did the best that they knew how to with what they knew, its only now because we know more that we would choose to make different decisions, thank god we have become free from a lot of those old ways.
You need to just go for this D, you need to investigate for yourself why he has happened to re-enter into your life. It feels like he enters in and out of his emotions with his wife, like fine one day and not the next.
You definitely should catch up with him, for old times sake excuse the pun!! And enjoy yourself but don’t put unrealistic expectations around the situation too soon. You need to get to know him again and this looks like a fun full of surprises journey.
What’s happened is that life has presented you with an opportunity to have many of your unresolved questions answered. For many years it’s probably been, does he still think of me? Will I ever see him again? Will we ever get a chance to feel the way we did back there again? And….. and …and….Embrace this experience.
Warm regards
Jill

Dear Jill,
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my query I really appreciate your input and your reply is very philosophical and 'wise' ... Yes, I do think I'm fortunate to have some issues dealt with after all this time albeit I'm still wondering how it all happened! - (but they say there are no accidents) I still have a few months to try and compose myself [and hopefully drop a few pounds!] Mind you I've even gone off eating for comfort these days - the shock of it all is still registering...
Thanks again Jill ... you offer a very good service here - and much more personal than some of the other I'net groups seem to be .... 'Hopefully will be able to let you know down the track what gives ...
Have a wonderful day/week/year!..... ((Hugs)), D....



                                                                                       

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